Anonymous wrote:15:06 again. I forgot to mention that I'm particularly seeing this in the Majors; I don't know if it's because the pitching is much improved at this level so his (lack of) speed is more noticeable than compared to AAA.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Just tell your kid to go play, do not put any expectations on them, tell them you enjoy watching them play, don't talk about the games in the car or after at home.
if they want to talk about it they will. this goes for all sports and school, do you want them telling you what you don't do right at work or what you can be doing better with more effort?
So this is good advice as far as telling them you love to watch them play and not discussing in the car postgame but this is dependent on what type of player you have. One of the biggest mistakes I see with kids that are serious about the sport is that they lack any thought regarding their play from that days game. Players that are serious should use every opportunity they have to better themselves. This means being reflective and perhaps keeping a notepad of things they felt they did well and things they can do better at.
This of course is dependent on the player. Casual Rec. player no - travel player that wants to continue with the game long term - absolutely.
that drive comes from them and needs to come from them and let them discover it.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Just tell your kid to go play, do not put any expectations on them, tell them you enjoy watching them play, don't talk about the games in the car or after at home.
if they want to talk about it they will. this goes for all sports and school, do you want them telling you what you don't do right at work or what you can be doing better with more effort?
So this is good advice as far as telling them you love to watch them play and not discussing in the car postgame but this is dependent on what type of player you have. One of the biggest mistakes I see with kids that are serious about the sport is that they lack any thought regarding their play from that days game. Players that are serious should use every opportunity they have to better themselves. This means being reflective and perhaps keeping a notepad of things they felt they did well and things they can do better at.
This of course is dependent on the player. Casual Rec. player no - travel player that wants to continue with the game long term - absolutely.
Anonymous wrote:Just tell your kid to go play, do not put any expectations on them, tell them you enjoy watching them play, don't talk about the games in the car or after at home.
if they want to talk about it they will. this goes for all sports and school, do you want them telling you what you don't do right at work or what you can be doing better with more effort?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My son who is in 11u travel lacks aggressiveness, any suggestions for improvements such as a class to work on the mental components. We are in moco.
Aggressiveness in sports often comes with maturity. Unfortunately some kids are born with it “naturally” - think disruptive toddler, and sports is a good outlet for them because they just act instinctively. Often times a child’s play mirrors their personality. It’s not a bad thing.
I would recommend something like Hecostix (look it up) or just in general make daily activities things fun and competitive like “I’ll race you to the door”
or my fave “how quickly can you get upstairs and in your bed - I’ll time you!”
Anonymous wrote:Any advice for 12Us who are skilled, but currently smaller in stature? Eventually they will hit their growth spurt and things will even out, but until then we want to make sure they don’t lose playing opportunities to the “big kids.”
Anonymous wrote:My son who is in 11u travel lacks aggressiveness, any suggestions for improvements such as a class to work on the mental components. We are in moco.