Anonymous
Post 10/14/2020 21:45     Subject: Being a good mom and wife

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Maid in the living room, cook in the kitchen, whore in the bedroom.


F@ck the first two.

High earner, outsource the cleaning/cooking, and more time for sex.


Yep!! It’s 2020, baby! Not 1950.


Also COVID, so who did you outsource cleaning/cooking to now?


My husband!! He’s always been a neat freak, likes to clean. He also is cooking for the first time in our marriage (22 years married) most nights.

I am certainly getting used to having him WAH with me.
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2020 21:32     Subject: Being a good mom and wife

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Maid in the living room, cook in the kitchen, whore in the bedroom.


F@ck the first two.

High earner, outsource the cleaning/cooking, and more time for sex.


Yep!! It’s 2020, baby! Not 1950.


Also COVID, so who did you outsource cleaning/cooking to now?
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2020 21:28     Subject: Being a good mom and wife

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Maid in the living room, cook in the kitchen, whore in the bedroom.


F@ck the first two.

High earner, outsource the cleaning/cooking, and more time for sex.

Opinions vary
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2020 19:59     Subject: Being a good mom and wife

Anonymous wrote:Just be a good person.

And put out on demand.
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2020 19:22     Subject: Being a good mom and wife

Just be a good person.
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2020 19:22     Subject: Being a good mom and wife

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Maid in the living room, cook in the kitchen, whore in the bedroom.


F@ck the first two.

High earner, outsource the cleaning/cooking, and more time for sex.


Yep!! It’s 2020, baby! Not 1950.
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2020 19:20     Subject: Being a good mom and wife

Anonymous wrote:Maid in the living room, cook in the kitchen, whore in the bedroom.


F@ck the first two.

High earner, outsource the cleaning/cooking, and more time for sex.
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2020 19:15     Subject: Being a good mom and wife

Maid in the living room, cook in the kitchen, whore in the bedroom.
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2020 19:05     Subject: Being a good mom and wife

Anonymous wrote:Treating myself like a human being with their own feelings, needs, and wants....rather than just a wife/mom.

I was a mess when I was trying to put everyone else ahead of me. Depressed and anxious all the time. Plus no one appreciated it.

When I made myself a priority and started drawing boundaries, I became much happier. I'm a way better mom now and I'm setting a good example for my kids. I don't want my daughters or sons to grow up with the belief that men come first and women need to comply.

NP, thank you for this. I am working on setting boundaries. It is hard after several years and a conscious effort not to feel guilty after setting those boundaries.
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2020 18:54     Subject: Being a good mom and wife

Treating myself like a human being with their own feelings, needs, and wants....rather than just a wife/mom.

I was a mess when I was trying to put everyone else ahead of me. Depressed and anxious all the time. Plus no one appreciated it.

When I made myself a priority and started drawing boundaries, I became much happier. I'm a way better mom now and I'm setting a good example for my kids. I don't want my daughters or sons to grow up with the belief that men come first and women need to comply.
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2020 18:53     Subject: Re:Being a good mom and wife

Self awarenes, emotional maturity and patience, as well as an ability to listen deeply and have empathy are skills that I think serve both roles well. Just respecting your children and spouse as individual people, separate from you and your agenda I think, puts you well on your way to being very good. Being able to laugh at yourself and find your own happiness within yourself, apart from your family may well make you excellent.
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2020 18:36     Subject: Being a good mom and wife

Being a surrendered/ empowered wife
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2020 18:30     Subject: Being a good mom and wife

Prom and proper on the streets, freak in the sheets.
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2020 18:07     Subject: Re:Being a good mom and wife

Good wife = Melania not wearing mask
Bad mom = giving her child covid
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2020 17:48     Subject: Being a good mom and wife

What does it mean to be a good mom and wife to you?