Anonymous wrote:If she lives in DC, the probate self help center may be able to help.
https://www.dccourts.gov/services/probate-matters/probate-self-help-center
I don't know if other jurisdictions have something similar.
Yes. Probate court is where she needs to go. If there is no dedicated self help center in her jurisdiction (probate is a state court issue, so the laws vary by state), there should be basic instructions on the court website. She can also call the clerk of the probate court--in my experience, they are very helpful. If she finds she needs a lawyer, and if the husband had assets, she should be able to make an arrangement for the lawyer to be paid out of the estate. So, even if she does not have access to cash right now, she should still be able to get legal help. But, she may not need it.