I just found out that my first FET resulted in a blighted ovum (with a 5AA PGS and PGD normal, ugh) and I’m thinking about transferring my embryos from NY to a VA clinic. I’m in the same boat as you - just spent a week in NY, feels like such wasted effort. I’m a little afraid to move the embryos but it’s exhausting to travel in addition to everything else that this process entails. Anyway, sending hugs and lots of empathy from someone in the same boat xo