I had sex with my now DH before the first date. 20 years and 2 kids later, we’re still going.

Anonymous wrote:He wants more sex... that’s why he’s reaching out.

Yes of course. And so does she. That is how good relationships work. You both want to get together.

He wants more sex... that’s why he’s reaching out.

If it felt right, then you have nothing to worry about, OP.

two date rule. learn it. live it.

Decline getting together tonight and opt for getting together tomorrow—somewhere outside and during the day. No alcohol.

Anonymous wrote:Just don’t try walking it back to “let’s go slow” because that won’t fly.

This. The cat is out of the bag...and that is fine.

Just don’t try walking it back to “let’s go slow” because that won’t fly.

My wife and I met through similar circumstances and had sex on our second date ( technically first). It was amazing and still is 5 years later. I got an office and we played boss/secretary yesterday. I didn’t mind my wife having sex early on because at least I knew the sex would hot. I wouldn’t date a woman who felt she needed to wait x amount of dates. I would worry her sex drive isn’t that high. My wife and I have sex everyday and it’s always good.

Anonymous wrote:Just let it play out

+1 I've been letting mine play out out for 13 years now.

Just let it play out

Normal and hot. Good for you!

Trashy

Pretty sure you need to grow up first

I went out last night with a guy I really like. We met through friends and hit it off. It was a first date and I slept with him. I’m a little nervous that I ruined my chances at a good thing. He seems interested with texting me If I want to get together again tonight, but I’m worried he sees me now as just sex. I don’t sleep around but it’s been a very long time and it just felt right. I did drink some wine ( not enough to get me drunk) but I really wanted to. The sex was very good and very dirty. I don’t know if I should just let things play out or talk with I’m tonight about wanting something serious again? We both said we are looking for relationship at dinner last night.