Anonymous
Post 09/11/2020 07:49     Subject: Can girls play on boys teams until certain age?

Get rid of gender based teams. Best players play on best team regardless of gender and so on down the team hierarchy. Same with tennis and golf.
Anonymous
Post 09/11/2020 07:26     Subject: Can girls play on boys teams until certain age?

Yeah, just depends on the ages.
Anonymous
Post 09/11/2020 07:23     Subject: Re:Can girls play on boys teams until certain age?

Anonymous wrote:Great I’m gonna sign my boy up for a girls team.... he is a pretty average player on a boys team but he is gonna be a superstar on a girls team!


Have you considered that your boy is just average no matter where you place him? And that if your post is any future indication for him your son has already peaked?
Anonymous
Post 09/11/2020 07:18     Subject: Can girls play on boys teams until certain age?

Anonymous wrote:This is certainly none of my business and I mean no disrespect to anyone, but every time I attend my son's practice I wonder:

They have a girl on his travel team that is called "Club Name/Year/Boys".

The girl is your regular "typical" 10 y.o. girl, curly longish hair, big eyes, etc. to me it is clear that it is just a girl (not a boy transitioning to girl or anything like that) with a girl name.

So I am just wondering if that's a thing - girls playing on boys' teams, etc. No judgment/honest question.


The only thing you should have asked to yourself is does she fit in skill wise and playing wise with the team?
Anonymous
Post 09/11/2020 01:21     Subject: Re:Can girls play on boys teams until certain age?

Soccer is spectrum friendly; considers multiple options, alternatives, and possibilities that allow all humans that identify as soccer players to participate. Please consider this without complete binary thinking. Boys don't have to be 'bad' players to play on female-gendered teams, nor do girls have to be 'very good' to play with a male-gendered team. Players may just prefer that team's style or dynamic. We should embrace this at all age levels . .
Anonymous
Post 09/11/2020 01:18     Subject: Can girls play on boys teams until certain age?

sometimes it happens because the coach needed players and recruited the girl during U8 or U9.

OR you have a super type A parent who insists that the girl plays on a boys team.

OR the girl wants to play on a boys team, parent is supportive, she tries out, and makes the team.

OR its a small club and the girls team for that age isn't very competitive or they only have rec for that age.

Rarely seen past U12 / U13 though. By then, the parents find an appropriate girls team.
Anonymous
Post 09/11/2020 00:20     Subject: Can girls play on boys teams until certain age?

Anonymous wrote:Yes girls can guest play on boys teams. Have seen it several times in the younger age groups.


If girls who are very good are allowed to play on buys teams because it helps their development, should boys who are very bad be allowed to play on girls teams? If not, why not? Discuss.
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2020 21:30     Subject: Can girls play on boys teams until certain age?

Yes girls can guest play on boys teams. Have seen it several times in the younger age groups.
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2020 21:29     Subject: Can girls play on boys teams until certain age?

Anonymous wrote:On a related note, can girls guest play on boys teams? We are in a tight sport for a game where only 8 players can show up (U12) and our neighbor's daughter offered to guest play for our son's team. We have had zero luck finding male guest players to date.


My daughter guested for a boys team in tournaments all the time (U9-U11)- not sure if league rules are different
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2020 21:26     Subject: Can girls play on boys teams until certain age?

On a related note, can girls guest play on boys teams? We are in a tight sport for a game where only 8 players can show up (U12) and our neighbor's daughter offered to guest play for our son's team. We have had zero luck finding male guest players to date.
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2020 21:11     Subject: Can girls play on boys teams until certain age?

Did they not have coed teams that age?
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2020 21:05     Subject: Re:Can girls play on boys teams until certain age?

Anonymous wrote:Great I’m gonna sign my boy up for a girls team.... he is a pretty average player on a boys team but he is gonna be a superstar on a girls team!


Lol!
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2020 20:46     Subject: Re:Can girls play on boys teams until certain age?

Great I’m gonna sign my boy up for a girls team.... he is a pretty average player on a boys team but he is gonna be a superstar on a girls team!
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2020 19:56     Subject: Can girls play on boys teams until certain age?

Anonymous wrote:This is certainly none of my business and I mean no disrespect to anyone, but every time I attend my son's practice I wonder:

They have a girl on his travel team that is called "Club Name/Year/Boys".

The girl is your regular "typical" 10 y.o. girl, curly longish hair, big eyes, etc. to me it is clear that it is just a girl (not a boy transitioning to girl or anything like that) with a girl name.

So I am just wondering if that's a thing - girls playing on boys' teams, etc. No judgment/honest question.


yup. It usually ends by 11 or so due to puberty or whatever, but it’s not unheard of. For the strongest girl players, playing with same-age boys is often a way to get more rapid development.
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2020 19:35     Subject: Can girls play on boys teams until certain age?

This is certainly none of my business and I mean no disrespect to anyone, but every time I attend my son's practice I wonder:

They have a girl on his travel team that is called "Club Name/Year/Boys".

The girl is your regular "typical" 10 y.o. girl, curly longish hair, big eyes, etc. to me it is clear that it is just a girl (not a boy transitioning to girl or anything like that) with a girl name.

So I am just wondering if that's a thing - girls playing on boys' teams, etc. No judgment/honest question.