Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My sister had a kid at 21 (unmarried). Actually I know a lot of people from childhood who did at that age or younger.
Well if YOUR SISTER did it then it must be the best idea ever. No. Nobody should be having kids until their pre-frontal cortex has finished developing, and they've had time to figure out who they are as an ADULT. And especially once you've gotten married - you should take time to solidify your marriage and figure out who you are as a husband/wife before adding a baby to the mix.
Anonymous wrote:I was 21 when I had my oldest. I had so much energy to play with my kid and her friends loved that I actually played with them all and didn’t get tired or hurt the way their moms did. I had my second kid older and it was so different. I still made the effort to run around, but my body hurt the next day.
Anonymous wrote:My sister had a kid at 21 (unmarried). Actually I know a lot of people from childhood who did at that age or younger.
Anonymous wrote:Wonderful news. She will be an awesome mom.
Anonymous wrote:I was 21 when I had my oldest. I had so much energy to play with my kid and her friends loved that I actually played with them all and didn’t get tired or hurt the way their moms did. I had my second kid older and it was so different. I still made the effort to run around, but my body hurt the next day.
Anonymous wrote:I was 21 when I had my oldest. I had so much energy to play with my kid and her friends loved that I actually played with them all and didn’t get tired or hurt the way their moms did. I had my second kid older and it was so different. I still made the effort to run around, but my body hurt the next day.