Anonymous
Post 08/09/2020 12:49     Subject: Drafted letter to other woman’s husband
Can you do it anonymously?
Anonymous
Post 08/09/2020 12:48     Subject: Re:Drafted letter to other woman’s husband
Don’t do it. Looks pathetic.
Anonymous
Post 08/09/2020 12:48     Subject: Re:Drafted letter to other woman’s husband
OP, cheaters will tell you not to do this. It’s the right thing to do. Read “surviving infidelity” and “betrayed wives” blogs. They advise doing this.
Anonymous
Post 08/09/2020 12:46     Subject: Re:Drafted letter to other woman’s husband
Anonymous wrote:I would stay out of it. Why bring another person's problems into your life? But if you must, then sure certified mail


She brought herself into OP’s life.
Anonymous
Post 08/09/2020 12:45     Subject: Drafted letter to other woman’s husband
You’ll look pathetic. This won’t be the dramatic moment you’re looking for. Have you left yet, or still making excuses on why you can’t?
Anonymous
Post 08/09/2020 12:45     Subject: Drafted letter to other woman’s husband
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You look weak doing it. He is not your problem. What he deserves is not up to you.


Who cares about "looking weak"?

I'd want to know.


I think ethically it’s the right thing to do. Weak is burying your head in the sand, not this.

I’d want to know too.
Anonymous
Post 08/09/2020 12:45     Subject: Re:Drafted letter to other woman’s husband
I would stay out of it. Why bring another person's problems into your life? But if you must, then sure certified mail
Anonymous
Post 08/09/2020 12:44     Subject: Drafted letter to other woman’s husband
Anonymous wrote:You look weak doing it. He is not your problem. What he deserves is not up to you.


Who cares about "looking weak"?

I'd want to know.
Anonymous
Post 08/09/2020 12:42     Subject: Re:Drafted letter to other woman’s husband
Anonymous wrote:Why do you assume he doesn't already know?


She’s had multiple and is a pathological, manipulative liar. He’s clueless. She plans to divorce him and make him think it’s his fault.
Anonymous
Post 08/09/2020 12:41     Subject: Drafted letter to other woman’s husband
Anonymous wrote:Both.


+1
Anonymous
Post 08/09/2020 12:41     Subject: Drafted letter to other woman’s husband
You look weak doing it. He is not your problem. What he deserves is not up to you.
Anonymous
Post 08/09/2020 12:40     Subject: Drafted letter to other woman’s husband
Both.
Anonymous
Post 08/09/2020 12:40     Subject: Re:Drafted letter to other woman’s husband
Gross
But hey misery loves company
Anonymous
Post 08/09/2020 12:39     Subject: Re:Drafted letter to other woman’s husband
Why do you assume he doesn't already know?
Anonymous
Post 08/09/2020 12:38     Subject: Drafted letter to other woman’s husband
Would you send via email or certified letter (signature required)? It was a multi-year affair, unprotected sex. He deserves to know.