Anonymous wrote:I’m a lesbian trapped in a mans body

I know this is probably a joke, but I am a man and have always been attracted to smart, fit, funny lesbians. I've also been attracted to quite a few women who identified as straight but later changed teams or at least decided they were bisexual.

My attraction to lesbians has never led to anything romantic, but once once I had a lesbian friend who was obviously attracted to me too. Her girlfriend (later her wife) got really angry and wouldn't let her hang out with me anymore.

This makes me wonder how often lesbians decide to start dating men? I know two.

I'm a woman who always said I'm attracted to women's brains and men's bodies. Hard to reconcile. That's possibly why I'm single.

Have you.... had.... sex with a woman before?

Just asking.

Watch Kissing Jessica Stein - very cute movie about this topic.

I’m a lesbian trapped in a mans body

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Explicitly say that you’re bi curious. That way you won’t get replies from lesbians looking for a serious relationship. They’ll know what to expect. Don’t break somebody’s heart.

Thanks, this is a helpful answer. I don’t want to be dishonest or hurt anyone. I genuinely am curious and could see myself in a happy sexual relationship with another woman. I’m just wondering if personality wise and outlook wise I might have better luck with a woman, who I think tend to be more empathetic and caring. Maybe it is a case of the grass is greener though.

Why not give it a try, then? There’s no shame in being curious/questioning, as long as you’re open about it. I’m bisexual, but married to a woman. There are a lot of benefits to dating within your own “culture”. And boobs are soft and pretty.

Good luck. 😊

Anonymous wrote:Explicitly say that you’re bi curious. That way you won’t get replies from lesbians looking for a serious relationship. They’ll know what to expect. Don’t break somebody’s heart.

Thanks, this is a helpful answer. I don’t want to be dishonest or hurt anyone. I genuinely am curious and could see myself in a happy sexual relationship with another woman. I’m just wondering if personality wise and outlook wise I might have better luck with a woman, who I think tend to be more empathetic and caring. Maybe it is a case of the grass is greener though.

Got to love a woman’s areas.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women are cray

men are exactly as cray but are always convinced that they’re the rational ones. It’s way worse.
-a bisexual who knows

I was just trying to say the grass isn’t always greener

Anonymous wrote:Women are cray

men are exactly as cray but are always convinced that they’re the rational ones. It’s way worse.
-a bisexual who knows

Women are cray

I am sick of men too. I like women better.

Explicitly say that you’re bi curious. That way you won’t get replies from lesbians looking for a serious relationship. They’ll know what to expect. Don’t break somebody’s heart.

You have not said in your post that you’ve ever had sexual attraction to a woman. Being sick of men just means you’re sick of men.

So I’m early 40s and have always identified as straight and dated men. However over the last two years I’ve had horrible experiences with men and find myself wondering if I’d have better luck with a woman. Any advice for someone that might be bicurious? And particular apps I should use? Should I be forward that I’ve never been with a woman before?