Anonymous
Post 07/12/2020 17:00     Subject: Re:How long does a crush usually last?

Anonymous wrote:Agreed with everyone else

It will last until you find flaws in them or have an intimate moment and then the chemistry isn’t there

However, if you’ve passed this point and you still like the person it’ll last a lifetime

Till someone comes and blows them out the water



“Best way to get over someone is by getting under someone new”


Don’t these two contradict each other?

Anyway, that is more like limerence.
Anonymous
Post 07/12/2020 16:54     Subject: Re:How long does a crush usually last?

Agreed with everyone else

It will last until you find flaws in them or have an intimate moment and then the chemistry isn’t there

However, if you’ve passed this point and you still like the person it’ll last a lifetime

Till someone comes and blows them out the water


“Best way to get over someone is by getting under someone new”
Anonymous
Post 07/12/2020 16:52     Subject: How long does a crush usually last?

Anonymous wrote:For a woman: until she's crushed by the executive functioning requirements of her household, family, and ungrateful job and has absolutely not time left for BS like crushes on some guy who by now is probably married and delegating all his personal life to a wife and all his professional life to a smarter woman than him.
That's when.


Therapy. After you get therapy.
Anonymous
Post 07/12/2020 16:51     Subject: Re:How long does a crush usually last?

6-18 months unless you have sex with them and the chemistry isn't there. Then it can end quickly
Anonymous
Post 07/12/2020 16:14     Subject: Re:How long does a crush usually last?

I crushed over someone for years and found that they actually were a really good person after getting to know them. Still not over it.
Anonymous
Post 07/12/2020 15:27     Subject: How long does a crush usually last?

I crushed over someone for years, and then it finally happened! And then I realized that though they were very physically attractive, they weren't actually a good person. Crush ended.
Anonymous
Post 07/12/2020 15:24     Subject: How long does a crush usually last?

Anonymous wrote:And how long is too long?



How old are you?
Anonymous
Post 07/11/2020 01:20     Subject: How long does a crush usually last?

A crush is over after the first time you have sex with that person and realize it ain’t all that...
Anonymous
Post 07/10/2020 23:40     Subject: Re:How long does a crush usually last?

Anonymous wrote:Until they get to know a person and dislike their flaws.


+1. I pined for a good friend for years. YEARS.

I finally made a move, we started dating, and within a couple months I realized I had made a terrible mistake. The things I liked about him turned out to be grating.

Anonymous
Post 07/10/2020 23:33     Subject: How long does a crush usually last?

Anonymous wrote:A lifetime.


ITA
Anonymous
Post 07/10/2020 14:57     Subject: How long does a crush usually last?

For a woman: until she's crushed by the executive functioning requirements of her household, family, and ungrateful job and has absolutely not time left for BS like crushes on some guy who by now is probably married and delegating all his personal life to a wife and all his professional life to a smarter woman than him.
That's when.
Anonymous
Post 07/10/2020 14:53     Subject: How long does a crush usually last?

it varies. But as long as hope + uncertainty lasts, the crush will last.
Anonymous
Post 07/10/2020 13:28     Subject: Re:How long does a crush usually last?

Until they get to know a person and dislike their flaws.
Anonymous
Post 07/10/2020 12:51     Subject: How long does a crush usually last?

A lifetime.
Anonymous
Post 07/10/2020 00:06     Subject: How long does a crush usually last?

And how long is too long?