Anonymous wrote:by a female, but the signs started out subtle until they weren’t ? Say it’s someone you suspect might bat for both teams but hasn’t directly told you (as far as you know they’re in a heterosexual marriage), but she seems to be touchy with you or compliments you a lot? At one point is it just being nice versus the woman is actually attracted to you?
Haha, you’re describing me, except I feel like I do the opposite with my girl crush. I used to not think twice about pinging her about getting together until one day I realized, “Wait. She hot”— and now I almost actively avoid her because it’s not a thing that could actually exist in this universe and I do not want anyone to know and I do wish to stay married. Plus I don’t KNOW if I bat for both teams. I just don’t have any real fantasy about other men because I have one already. Might just be the intrigue of the unknown.