Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What’s happening there? Why did you match with me if you didn’t want to talk?

She is probably dating someone else now.

Yeah but why did she swipe right on me then?

I’ve never just say hi. And I don’t respond to people who just say hi to me online. Who would want to be in a relationship or even just friends with someone in need of your attention with such little effort? Ignore that lazy ass.

Why do you initiate the conversation with a "Hi" and then never respond after I say hello back? Are you collecting men?

For me, most likely I swiped right by accident. On rare case, it’s I got a few match at the same time, I just pick one or two to initiate the conversation.

Don’t get offended or discouraged by this, people Who are really interested in you will initiate, if not, then they are just not, move on to next one.

Sometimes life takes over and I need to focus on something else.

I can have ongoing conversations with 3 men at a time before you all blur together. Unless I ax someone in the 24 hours I have to send a message, you’re not getting one.

All that a match means is that you have both decided the other person's profile is interesting/attractive enough to welcome a connection if she initiates it.

She still gets to look at the matches and decide which ones she wants to open up to the next level. That's the point of Bumble. You don't have to use it.

Sometimes I realize your like 40 miles away so don’t bother. I love D but don’t travel for D, thanks. Or I accidentally swiped. Or you changed your pics since we matched and you are old and tired and saggy.

Anonymous wrote:What’s happening there? Why did you match with me if you didn’t want to talk?

She is probably dating someone else now.

OP, I'm not a fan of bumble. Try some other datin websites.

I bet you there are any number of women that are responding to OP who probably swiped on every woman he saw, but he has decided they are not in his “league” or some other nonsense and is now outraged that the women HE wants may have decided HE isn’t in THEIR “league.”

Anonymous wrote:What’s happening there? Why did you match with me if you didn’t want to talk?

What if they have struck up a connection with someone who responded sooner or has some particularly interesting characteristics, and they want to see if that works first? What if their limit is three dates in line at one time, and you are the fourth?

I don't see a problem with that. And I don't Bumble, but I can guarantee that if you message a guy to say he had an attractive and interesting profile, but that she is *not* interested in talking at this time -- yeah, big odds that the conversation doesn't end there.

^^ ask the SAME question

Anonymous wrote:What’s happening there? Why did you match with me if you didn’t want to talk?

I am sure plenty of women could ask the question. The fleas come with the dog focus on the women who do talk to you vs the ones who don’t.

What’s happening there? Why did you match with me if you didn’t want to talk?