Anonymous wrote:When I cry, my husband gets angry and tells me why I shouldn’t be crying. Whenever I get emotional about something he gets angry.

After 20 years of marriage I have learned that anger in men is what tears are for women. If your husband gets angry at your tears it’s because he is emotional and doesn’t know how to express it.

Anonymous wrote:My husband becomes noticeably uncomfortable, but he does his best lol. He absolutely cares, he just doesn't know what to do. Luckily neither of us are big criers.

+1

I am a DH. I feels sad when my DW cries and try to fix the boo boo but she just mostly wants comfort. I am uncomfortable when she cries as I don't have much experience comforting anyone when they cry. Most men don't hang out with people who cry and thus, we don't know what to do and are generally uncomfortable.

I don’t believe my husband has ever seen me cry as I’m not a crier. When my Dad died I did cry but my husband was home with our kids.

My husband becomes noticeably uncomfortable, but he does his best lol. He absolutely cares, he just doesn't know what to do. Luckily neither of us are big criers.

When I cry, my husband gets angry and tells me why I shouldn’t be crying. Whenever I get emotional about something he gets angry.

My husband is very upset when I cry. I don't cry that often and he loves me and is upset when I'm in pain. I feel very sad and upset when he is in pain too.

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Anonymous wrote:When a husband sees his wife cry, is it a painful sight? Does he also feel like crying as well? How does it affect him emotionally?

I know some women who can’t stand to see their husbands cry, they automatically cry if they see their husband cry. I was wondering how does a woman’s tears affect a man emotionally?

Stuck on the answer for your psych final eh?

There seems to be a poster on here who poses these strange questions. Haven't determined if teen trying to figure out how to act in a relationship or someone with some social issues and are trying to figure out how women work.

What were some of the strange questions you've seen posted?

Anonymous wrote:For a narcissist, tears cause no guilt, remorse or empathy. They may be able to “act” like they are bothered by them, but they don’t actually feel it.

What is this crazy talk? Is there a scorned DW that responds to every post like this?

Tears made my xH angry. He'd roll his eyes, or look at me with disgust, or tell me to grow TF up.

Funny thing was, he cried more than I did, but expected me to give in to whatever he wanted and comfort him.

But, his tactics worked. He wanted a stone-cold, unemotional wife, and that's what he got. Made divorce super easy for me, while he was completely devastated.

Normal people are moved by others' tears. You'd have to be a sociopath, psycho, sadist or narcissist to feel nothing when someone near you is suffering.

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Anonymous wrote:When a husband sees his wife cry, is it a painful sight? Does he also feel like crying as well? How does it affect him emotionally?

I know some women who can’t stand to see their husbands cry, they automatically cry if they see their husband cry. I was wondering how does a woman’s tears affect a man emotionally?

Stuck on the answer for your psych final eh?

There seems to be a poster on here who poses these strange questions. Haven't determined if teen trying to figure out how to act in a relationship or someone with some social issues and are trying to figure out how women work.

Anonymous wrote:When a husband sees his wife cry, is it a painful sight? Does he also feel like crying as well? How does it affect him emotionally?

I know some women who can’t stand to see their husbands cry, they automatically cry if they see their husband cry. I was wondering how does a woman’s tears affect a man emotionally?

Stuck on the answer for your psych final eh?

It breaks my heart. DW rarely cries so when she does, I know something is really hurting her.

For a narcissist, tears cause no guilt, remorse or empathy. They may be able to “act” like they are bothered by them, but they don’t actually feel it.

When a husband sees his wife cry, is it a painful sight? Does he also feel like crying as well? How does it affect him emotionally?

I know some women who can’t stand to see their husbands cry, they automatically cry if they see their husband cry. I was wondering how does a woman’s tears affect a man emotionally?