Anonymous
06/12/2020 12:22
Subject: SAHMS getting a job after divorce
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My cousin retired at 55 after a successful career. He now works part-time at Target and loves it. Don't knock it. He said tons of retirees work there.
The key is this man has a RETIREMENT. I know plenty of people that take jobs they love at retirement and not out of necessity.
My mom is similar she has taken on employment at places she loves.
This affair woman going behind her husband's back with kids that are still in high school--haven't even hit college does not have a retirement. She did not have any career, much less a successful one. She betrayed the man multiple times that has set her up in her McMansion while she boned other men.
Going into the work force at an entry level job (if she can even find one given these businesses folding left and right and competing against much younger people) is going to be rough for a princess like this.
Anonymous
06/12/2020 12:03
Subject: SAHMS getting a job after divorce
Anonymous wrote:My cousin retired at 55 after a successful career. He now works part-time at Target and loves it. Don't knock it. He said tons of retirees work there.
My friend has been an HR manager for lots of retailers. Some of her best salespeople have always been SAHMs going back to work.
Anonymous
06/12/2020 12:00
Subject: SAHMS getting a job after divorce
Anonymous wrote:My cousin retired at 55 after a successful career. He now works part-time at Target and loves it. Don't knock it. He said tons of retirees work there.
The key is this man has a RETIREMENT. I know plenty of people that take jobs they love at retirement and not out of necessity.
My mom is similar she has taken on employment at places she loves.
This affair woman going behind her husband's back with kids that are still in high school--haven't even hit college does not have a retirement. She did not have any career, much less a successful one. She betrayed the man multiple times that has set her up in her McMansion while she boned other men.
Anonymous
06/12/2020 11:58
Subject: SAHMS getting a job after divorce
My cousin retired at 55 after a successful career. He now works part-time at Target and loves it. Don't knock it. He said tons of retirees work there.
Anonymous
06/12/2020 11:24
Subject: SAHMS getting a job after divorce
Places like WalMart, Target, Joanne are always hiring. If her income is low enough, she will qualify for SNAP benefits and Medicaid. Her lifestyle will take a huge hit but she won't be homeless on the street.
If there's no prenup, she will be entitled to at least some spousal support. The courts in most states don't care if she had a thousand affairs.
If there's no prenup, she will be entitled to at least some spousal support. The courts in most states don't care if she had a thousand affairs.
Anonymous
06/12/2020 11:17
Subject: Re:SAHMS getting a job after divorce
I love to hear the above. She was very self righteous. Very much “my affairs are saving my marriage”. Get to work Ho!!
Anonymous
06/12/2020 11:14
Subject: Re:SAHMS getting a job after divorce
She works out an agreement to see the kids. Gets alimony, gets her own apartment and works even if it’s at Target. She has to make a new life.
Anonymous
06/12/2020 10:55
Subject: SAHMS getting a job after divorce
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I have two friends recently divorced and while they were not SAHMs they had hobby very PT jobs. Both remain in the marital home and both have boyfriends that continue to fund fancy vacations. One had to find a FT job, the other seems to work less. It’s all individual circumstance.
I think that will be very difficult for her. She is turning 50 soon and never had a lucrative job/career prior to marriage. No idea why she put herself in a position to have multiple affairs behind her husband’s back when she can’t support herself. Ain’t no spring chicken.
She made her bed (and chose to screw someone else in it). That risk was always there. Selfish and ungrateful get what they deserve in the end.
Anonymous
06/12/2020 10:48
Subject: SAHMS getting a job after divorce
Anonymous wrote:I have two friends recently divorced and while they were not SAHMs they had hobby very PT jobs. Both remain in the marital home and both have boyfriends that continue to fund fancy vacations. One had to find a FT job, the other seems to work less. It’s all individual circumstance.
I think that will be very difficult for her. She is turning 50 soon and never had a lucrative job/career prior to marriage. No idea why she put herself in a position to have multiple affairs behind her husband’s back when she can’t support herself. Ain’t no spring chicken.
Anonymous
06/12/2020 10:46
Subject: SAHMS getting a job after divorce
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Just curious how many SAHMs had to get a job or lost the house after divorce?
Divorce is often glamorized and made that the woman gets everything and a glorious life when in reality it's the exception vs reality.
I'm thinking of a serial cheating woman I know whose husband just found out about her long affair.
This woman made excuses for not working for decades. Her kids are in high school.
Can't she just marry the new man and continue on not working?
The new man wants nothing to do with her. He’s married and dumped her. He has kids too.
Anonymous
06/12/2020 10:44
Subject: SAHMS getting a job after divorce
I have two friends recently divorced and while they were not SAHMs they had hobby very PT jobs. Both remain in the marital home and both have boyfriends that continue to fund fancy vacations. One had to find a FT job, the other seems to work less. It’s all individual circumstance.
Anonymous
06/12/2020 10:25
Subject: SAHMS getting a job after divorce
Anonymous wrote:Just curious how many SAHMs had to get a job or lost the house after divorce?
Divorce is often glamorized and made that the woman gets everything and a glorious life when in reality it's the exception vs reality.
I'm thinking of a serial cheating woman I know whose husband just found out about her long affair.
This woman made excuses for not working for decades. Her kids are in high school.
Can't she just marry the new man and continue on not working?
Anonymous
06/12/2020 10:24
Subject: SAHMS getting a job after divorce
I know women who were abused by their husbands, and then the husbands wiped out the bank accounts and locked them out of the house. The women can't afford lawyers, so they are left to sign away everything just to see their kids again or get their own clothes out of the house (usually thrown out the door in a trash bag).
Women getting the better end of divorce is a rich man's myth.
Women getting the better end of divorce is a rich man's myth.
Anonymous
06/12/2020 10:23
Subject: SAHMS getting a job after divorce
Did they have a prenup? What state?
Anonymous
06/12/2020 10:17
Subject: SAHMS getting a job after divorce
Just curious how many SAHMs had to get a job or lost the house after divorce?
Divorce is often glamorized and made that the woman gets everything and a glorious life when in reality it's the exception vs reality.
I'm thinking of a serial cheating woman I know whose husband just found out about her long affair.
This woman made excuses for not working for decades. Her kids are in high school.
Divorce is often glamorized and made that the woman gets everything and a glorious life when in reality it's the exception vs reality.
I'm thinking of a serial cheating woman I know whose husband just found out about her long affair.
This woman made excuses for not working for decades. Her kids are in high school.