Anonymous
05/29/2020 10:31
Subject: Men... in a casual relationship is this text too forward or just right?
If you are putting this much thought into this text to the guy, you're more into him than a casual fling.
Anonymous
05/29/2020 10:27
Subject: Re:Men... in a casual relationship is this text too forward or just right?
My guess is that guys responding to OP are saying go for it and women are saying it's too desperate.
I think it's flirty and fine.
I think it's flirty and fine.
Anonymous
05/29/2020 10:24
Subject: Men... in a casual relationship is this text too forward or just right?
A picture is worth a thousand words!!
Anonymous
05/29/2020 10:23
Subject: Re:Men... in a casual relationship is this text too forward or just right?
Sounds desperate. Just say Happy Birthday and looking forward to seeing him again soon
Agree.
Anonymous
05/29/2020 10:21
Subject: Men... in a casual relationship is this text too forward or just right?
Sounds desperate. Just say Happy Birthday and looking forward to seeing him again soon
Anonymous
05/29/2020 08:58
Subject: Men... in a casual relationship is this text too forward or just right?
Anonymous wrote:I would remove the "I guess it's not to be". Why be passive aggressive? If you want to see him, you want to see him.
I don't think it is passive aggressive, but is too wistful and negative! I'd just say, "I wish I could give you a birthday present!" with the devil or flame emoji
Anonymous
05/29/2020 08:41
Subject: Men... in a casual relationship is this text too forward or just right?
I would remove the word "love" entirely from the text. Entirely.
Anonymous
05/29/2020 08:18
Subject: Men... in a casual relationship is this text too forward or just right?
A little desperate just because we're in the middle of a pandemic. He might get a big head that he's so impressive in bed you're willing to risk COVID.
Anonymous
05/29/2020 08:15
Subject: Men... in a casual relationship is this text too forward or just right?
I would remove the "I guess it's not to be". Why be passive aggressive? If you want to see him, you want to see him.
Anonymous
05/28/2020 20:48
Subject: Re:Men... in a casual relationship is this text too forward or just right?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The text is fine. End it with a devilish emoji and he will clearly get the message.
Agree.
-Guy
OP here. Okay, thanks everyone! I guess I will go with it!
Anonymous
05/28/2020 20:04
Subject: Re:Men... in a casual relationship is this text too forward or just right?
Anonymous wrote:The text is fine. End it with a devilish emoji and he will clearly get the message.
Agree.
-Guy
Anonymous
05/28/2020 20:02
Subject: Men... in a casual relationship is this text too forward or just right?
Accompany the text with a pic of your boobs and it's perfect.
Anonymous
05/28/2020 19:17
Subject: Men... in a casual relationship is this text too forward or just right?
The first one is just fine...ask him about how he is doing when closing the outreach.
Anonymous
05/28/2020 19:15
Subject: Re:Men... in a casual relationship is this text too forward or just right?
The text is fine. End it with a devilish emoji and he will clearly get the message.
Anonymous
05/28/2020 19:05
Subject: Men... in a casual relationship is this text too forward or just right?
I haven't seen my FWB in 10 weeks because of quarantine. Usually I see him twice a month. His birthday is coming up soon and I thought I'd text him to wish him a good day and then say, "I'd love to give you a birthday present right now, but I guess it's not to be," or something like that. "Birthday present"= use your imagination. Would receiving a text like that be awesome ... or not? I have to admit I'd love to be able to bed him right now, given the loneliness of lockdown. But I don't want to seem desperate. I just want to seem light and teasing. Thoughts? I don't anticipate seeing him most of the summer because I'm going away for six weeks at the beginning of July.
And yes, I know I've overthought this.
TIA
And yes, I know I've overthought this.
TIA