Anonymous
Post 05/14/2020 06:04     Subject: Do you have to super attractive to find a good man in your 40’s?
Anonymous wrote:Good man is not easy to find at any age


Not as hard as finding good woman.
Anonymous
Post 05/14/2020 04:36     Subject: Do you have to super attractive to find a good man in your 40’s?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I have 3 friends, one is mid-40s (2 DCs) and the other two are early 50s (one with 2 teen DCs and another with 3 DCs 8 years old to teen) each of these ladies divorced and are in committed relationships with guys far better than their previous husbands. Friend #1 is set to marry this year a guy who was never married and he makes her super happy. Friend #2 just got engaged to her boyfriend who is divorced with a college age child. Friend #3 is smitten with her boyfriend who is also divorced with a college age and high school child. Your age is not decisive in finding companionship.


That sounds lovely! How did they meet?


One through a mutual friend, the other two on a dating app
Anonymous
Post 05/14/2020 04:05     Subject: Do you have to super attractive to find a good man in your 40’s?
Anonymous wrote:I have 3 friends, one is mid-40s (2 DCs) and the other two are early 50s (one with 2 teen DCs and another with 3 DCs 8 years old to teen) each of these ladies divorced and are in committed relationships with guys far better than their previous husbands. Friend #1 is set to marry this year a guy who was never married and he makes her super happy. Friend #2 just got engaged to her boyfriend who is divorced with a college age child. Friend #3 is smitten with her boyfriend who is also divorced with a college age and high school child. Your age is not decisive in finding companionship.


That sounds lovely! How did they meet?
Anonymous
Post 05/14/2020 03:56     Subject: Do you have to super attractive to find a good man in your 40’s?
I have 3 friends, one is mid-40s (2 DCs) and the other two are early 50s (one with 2 teen DCs and another with 3 DCs 8 years old to teen) each of these ladies divorced and are in committed relationships with guys far better than their previous husbands. Friend #1 is set to marry this year a guy who was never married and he makes her super happy. Friend #2 just got engaged to her boyfriend who is divorced with a college age child. Friend #3 is smitten with her boyfriend who is also divorced with a college age and high school child. Your age is not decisive in finding companionship.
Anonymous
Post 05/13/2020 23:49     Subject: Do you have to super attractive to find a good man in your 40’s?

I hope you find someone, OP.

Anonymous
Post 05/13/2020 23:44     Subject: Do you have to super attractive to find a good man in your 40’s?
Anonymous wrote:Try to let go of needing a man. They are a headache!


I don’t need a man, but I married for companionship and want that again. I like being married and having a husband.
Anonymous
Post 05/13/2020 23:43     Subject: Re:Do you have to super attractive to find a good man in your 40’s?
Anonymous wrote:I'm in my forties and my best relationships have not been marriage oriented. Take some time off from the serious relationships and have fun for a bit.


What do you consider fun? Most women enjoy themselves most in committed relationships and don't get much of out of fwb arrangments. That's why Ashley Madison is filled with men willing to pay for such fwb.
Anonymous
Post 05/13/2020 23:41     Subject: Do you have to super attractive to find a good man in your 40’s?
Use the word “ sensual” in your online dating profile and the men will flock. Good men, as someone said, are hard to find at any age. Good luck!
Anonymous
Post 05/13/2020 23:34     Subject: Do you have to super attractive to find a good man in your 40’s?
Try to let go of needing a man. They are a headache!
Anonymous
Post 05/13/2020 23:22     Subject: Do you have to super attractive to find a good man in your 40’s?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Good man is not easy to find at any age


This!


True. But you’ll date so much differently than before. You’re more self-confident now. No biological clock ticking away.
Anonymous
Post 05/13/2020 23:13     Subject: Re:Do you have to super attractive to find a good man in your 40’s?
I'm in my forties and my best relationships have not been marriage oriented. Take some time off from the serious relationships and have fun for a bit.
Anonymous
Post 05/13/2020 23:09     Subject: Do you have to super attractive to find a good man in your 40’s?
Anonymous wrote:Good man is not easy to find at any age


This!
Anonymous
Post 05/13/2020 23:08     Subject: Do you have to super attractive to find a good man in your 40’s?
Good man is not easy to find at any age
Anonymous
Post 05/13/2020 23:05     Subject: Do you have to super attractive to find a good man in your 40’s?
Sure, there are some nice divorcees with baggage out there in their 40's waiting for you.
Anonymous
Post 05/13/2020 22:58     Subject: Do you have to super attractive to find a good man in your 40’s?
My husband wants a divorce. I’m wondering if there’s any hope for a regular skinny fat chick, no Botox, not great at doing makeup or fashion. I just want a nice guy who actually likes and loves me. Possible?