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Anonymous wrote:My neighborhood is very close. Most of us are around the same age and are great friends. We were all hanging out and two people decided to go home. One of my neighbors walked one person back while I walked the other one home. When I was walking back to the house we were hanging out at it, the other neighbor caught up to me and we walked back up to his house together. Everyone else was still inside playing games and having fun. About a month ago, I broke with my boyfriend, which is friends with this neighbor. He said let’s hang out here for a sec and he popped his tailgate and we sat on opposite ends. We were talking about the break up just briefly. I asked if he was ok because I was a little confused why he wanted to stay outside. He then grabbed my upper thigh and began leaning in. I immediately pushed him away and told him not to make that mistake. I started talking about how much I love his wife and how I would never do that to anyone. I tried to change the subject after that because it was so awful. As I got off and headed back in the house, he told me thank you for stopping him. I’m good friends with his wife and I’m not sure if I should tell her about this but I don’t want to feel like I’m protecting him either. I just wish I can go on pretending like this never happened. He text me multiple times this morning and throughout the day. He didn’t acknowledge what happened but I feel like he’s trying to act like he doesn’t remember because he had been drinking. But I know he remembers because he never texts me. I think he’s trying to gauge If I’m upset and going to tell his wife. When I was still asleep, he blew up my phone until he got a response. I just fear that if I tell her, he will try to twist the story. And if I don’t tell her, then it looks like I have something to hide. Any advice?

I started reading and immediately got confused - why do people have to walk each other home in a neighborhood?

Anonymous wrote:My neighborhood is very close. Most of us are around the same age and are great friends. We were all hanging out and two people decided to go home. One of my neighbors walked one person back while I walked the other one home. When I was walking back to the house we were hanging out at it, the other neighbor caught up to me and we walked back up to his house together. Everyone else was still inside playing games and having fun. About a month ago, I broke with my boyfriend, which is friends with this neighbor. He said let’s hang out here for a sec and he popped his tailgate and we sat on opposite ends. We were talking about the break up just briefly. I asked if he was ok because I was a little confused why he wanted to stay outside. He then grabbed my upper thigh and began leaning in. I immediately pushed him away and told him not to make that mistake. I started talking about how much I love his wife and how I would never do that to anyone. I tried to change the subject after that because it was so awful. As I got off and headed back in the house, he told me thank you for stopping him. I’m good friends with his wife and I’m not sure if I should tell her about this but I don’t want to feel like I’m protecting him either. I just wish I can go on pretending like this never happened. He text me multiple times this morning and throughout the day. He didn’t acknowledge what happened but I feel like he’s trying to act like he doesn’t remember because he had been drinking. But I know he remembers because he never texts me. I think he’s trying to gauge If I’m upset and going to tell his wife. When I was still asleep, he blew up my phone until he got a response. I just fear that if I tell her, he will try to twist the story. And if I don’t tell her, then it looks like I have something to hide. Any advice?

Anonymous wrote:Oh man, that’s hard. I don’t think I would tell - I’d pretend it never happened. I wouldn’t want to be in the middle of their relationship drama - I’d exit stage left. I’d be cordial in public but make sure I’m never alone with him again.

Anonymous wrote:I'd act like I was sick and give them all something to think about.

Anonymous wrote:I'm so bothered by the fact that none of you are social distancing that I can't even get to the subject of your post. It sounds like this whole group sucks, given the disregard you all have for social distancing and stay at home orders.

Anonymous wrote:Oh man, that’s hard. I don’t think I would tell - I’d pretend it never happened. I wouldn’t want to be in the middle of their relationship drama - I’d exit stage left. I’d be cordial in public but make sure I’m never alone with him again.

Anonymous wrote:I'm so bothered by the fact that none of you are social distancing that I can't even get to the subject of your post. It sounds like this whole group sucks, given the disregard you all have for social distancing and stay at home orders.