Anonymous wrote:This is OP. We don't have kids. In past weeks, I've done what others suggested by being on the call at the start and then dropping off to do laundry/walk the dog, etc. The issue is that the other SO's are on the call for the whole time. Last week, I had told husband I wanted to sit it out, so he told them I wasn't feeling well, to which apparently IL's were worried that I was gravely ill. Also, while I don't think DH would ever admit it to me, I think he feels jealous that his sibling's spouses are on this call, and I'm sitting it out.
Anonymous wrote:You don't have to be in the room for the call. Say hello to everyone when the call starts, leave the room when you get bored. If they're not paying attention to you they won't miss you. You could be in the bathroom for all they know.
We try to have calls with the ILs a couple of times a week and they mostly want to see the baby. I'm not trying to avoid them but I was cooking during one and I heard them ask where I was, DH told them, and ... that was it! Nobody can drag you into your living room from a distance OP.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Let your spouse and kids participate and you can drift off and do something else as you had other plans.
Don't be a wet blanket.
Or a petty POS. Grow up, op. “These people” are your kids family. Set an example as an adult.
Anonymous wrote:Let your spouse and kids participate and you can drift off and do something else as you had other plans.
Don't be a wet blanket.