Loud! Mine are 7,6 and 3. Very physical. My husband is often primary parent now because of wrestling, rough housing. I think a strong male figure is so necessary. Our basement is half gym with mats, a ceiling rope and big speakers to play thumping music. Weekends they are riding bikes, weed whacking, making forts. I feel like i have hardened my personality to discipline in a very matter of fact way. But they don't hold grudges. I run a tight ship but am very physically affectionate and rough house myself, holding them upside down and throwing them on the couch. I feel God gave me boys for a reason. It's harder for me to project my neuroses about weight, appearance, social totem poles onto them.
