Why did you make noise when she was sleeping. That is very rude.

OP, how about you stop washing your hands frequently? That will show her!

Hmmm...Lets see.
I am a SAHM. My DH lets me sleep in and he handles the morning breakfast, packing lunch and taking kids to school.
They are very quite in the morning as not to disturb me, so I am quite surprised that you did not show the same courtesy to her. I think you are being passive-aggressive because you actually don't want her to sleep in and you resent that she is at home.
I have only one thing to ask you - is she a part time speech therapist who only made $18K last year?

If the roles were reversed folks'd be up in arms saying OP should call the cops and have that abusive husband arrested.

Anonymous wrote:"mean stuff"??

yeah, ridiculous stuff. She followed me into the bathroom saying that I don't care about her feelings and I was rude for opening the door loud and a bunch of other stuff I simply tuned out. I told her that her behavior is abusive and then she just got worse.

Anonymous wrote:Troll.

Right. Do better, OP.

That IS an overreaction. You need to tell her she is over-reacting, needs a medical check-up for possible physical causes of irritability (hyperthyroidism comes to mind), and if all is normal, therapy to learn how to control her emotions.

I get angry when my husband makes too much noise and wakes up our kids, who need more sleep than he does. But I don't throw things or talk about divorce.

Troll.

Anonymous wrote:she doesn't work. that is simply her schedule.

Wow. You need to stop getting up with the kids unless she's recovering from cancer or something.

"mean stuff"??

she doesn't work. that is simply her schedule.

Sounds hormonal. Not that being hormonal makes it okay.

Holy moly. Does she work nights or something? Why does she sleep so late? Your poor kids.

Yikes. Is she bi polar? That sounds pretty manic.

Wife just threw coffee cup across kitchen shattering it on floor with coffee in it because she is angry that I woke her up opening the bedroom door this morning when I was getting daughter ready for school. I wake up and do breakfast for everyone and get kids to school. Wife usually gets up around 9. She got angry while I was getting kids ready and said some mean stuff to me. She is ranting about wanting a divorce. I simply do not deserve this.