Wow, OP, I would be a 10. That is really weird. Did he tell you, hey, you stay with the kid, I'm going to pop over to the strip bar for a beer by myself. ?? That is really strange behavior.

That seems a bit sex negative to call a strip club low brow. Strip clubs can be good places for men to blow off steam while staying out of trouble. Should he have asked you first or something?

He went by himself and I think it’s creepy. Just like really low brow and trashy. Who does this?

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I'm confused.. My wife would only be bothered that I sit invite her. Are you suspecting something more happened? Strip clubs are pretty harmless.

Anonymous wrote:Op here. Totally alone. When on a beach vacation with his wife and 4 year old daughter.

Ooh this info makes it a 10. That’s a problem.

Unless it was a work trip and he met his pervy coworkers there or in a city where he met his college buddies there?

If you are describing a family of 3 at Disney resort for 4 day and your husband snuck out to a strip club alone, that’s a serious problem.

Need more details. Extended Family vacation and all the guys went to a strip club and brought my 75 year old dad and uncles?
I’m a 1. Hilarious .

Not enough details to opine. Going to a strip club, even while on a family beach vacation, isn't an automatic 10.

Since you're calling it an 'indiscretion', we can assume you're pissed about it and think we should shout out our agreement.

Depends.....If it is at Disney..7-8....

If it was with the extended family and all the guys went out, tacky, but more like 2-3.

Op here. Totally alone. When on a beach vacation with his wife and 4 year old daughter.

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Anonymous wrote:On a scale of 1-10, how mad would you be if your husband went out to a strip club while on a family vacation?

What are you talking about? This is some Jerry Springer S&@$!. Yea 10, dude. 10. Wake up and smell the coffee. You don’t need to ask around any more. This is dysfunctional

Mind you— brother’s bachelor party in Vegas, once in a lifetime, same deal, nothing further than a kosher lap dance — I’m at 1.

With whom? My Dad and Brother...his Brother....I’d laugh.

Anonymous wrote:On a scale of 1-10, how mad would you be if your husband went out to a strip club while on a family vacation?

What are you talking about? This is some Jerry Springer S&@$!. Yea 10, dude. 10. Wake up and smell the coffee. You don’t need to ask around any more. This is dysfunctional

On a scale of 1-10, how mad would you be if your husband went out to a strip club while on a family vacation?