Anonymous
03/08/2020 15:26
Subject: Neighbor acting like my cat is hers
Indoor cat
Anonymous
03/08/2020 15:23
Subject: Neighbor acting like my cat is hers
Anonymous wrote:The cat is acting like the neighbor is hers.
WINNER.
Anonymous
03/08/2020 15:02
Subject: Neighbor acting like my cat is hers
What is the big deal?
Anonymous
03/08/2020 14:59
Subject: Neighbor acting like my cat is hers
Keep your cat indoors or don’t whine when it does as it pleases.
Anonymous
03/08/2020 13:35
Subject: Neighbor acting like my cat is hers
The cat is acting like the neighbor is hers.
Anonymous
03/08/2020 13:34
Subject: Neighbor acting like my cat is hers
Anonymous wrote:Keep your D cat in your house.
+1 your cat should not be roaming outside
Anonymous
03/08/2020 13:28
Subject: Neighbor acting like my cat is hers
I would keep him home.
Anonymous
03/08/2020 13:19
Subject: Neighbor acting like my cat is hers
The concerned-comments can be ignored if they don't have merit.
There's not much you can do, or any owner can do, if the cat adopts someone else though. Cats choose their owners
There's not much you can do, or any owner can do, if the cat adopts someone else though. Cats choose their owners
Anonymous
03/08/2020 13:16
Subject: Neighbor acting like my cat is hers
+1 to keeping your kitty in or letting him pick. We had a cat once that started hanging out more and more with another family and eventually it was agreed that the cat had made her choice. As it turned out, they doted on her in her old age in a way that my parents never would have. Smart cat.
And/or consider whether it would be responsible to suggest that your neighbor get an [indoor] cat.
And/or consider whether it would be responsible to suggest that your neighbor get an [indoor] cat.
Anonymous
03/08/2020 13:08
Subject: Neighbor acting like my cat is hers
Anonymous wrote:Outdoor cats get to decide where they spend their time, even if it's with other people. Indoor cats are yours alone.
THIS.
Anonymous
03/08/2020 12:50
Subject: Neighbor acting like my cat is hers
Outdoor cats get to decide where they spend their time, even if it's with other people. Indoor cats are yours alone.
Anonymous
03/08/2020 12:48
Subject: Re:Neighbor acting like my cat is hers
You can ask her not to feed him, but there’s not much else you can do if you’re going to let your cat roam free outside, spending his days however he chooses.
Anonymous
03/08/2020 12:48
Subject: Neighbor acting like my cat is hers
Keep your D cat in your house.
Anonymous
03/08/2020 12:46
Subject: Neighbor acting like my cat is hers
Keep your cat in the house. It’s simple.
Anonymous
03/08/2020 12:44
Subject: Neighbor acting like my cat is hers
She still lives with her parents. I thought she was about 19 but she is actually 34, just looks crazy young.
She has Ulcerative Colitis and works but is at home a lot.
I have a cat who has ventured over her way and she is completely smitten. I know he spends a lot of time with her and she adores him. I am pleased he brings her happiness but I do feel she feeds him (He has put on a lot of weight lately) and I barely see him as he is at her house.
She also texts me concerned comments at times about him being in a cat fight or not seeing him for a few days. It almost feels like it is her cat.
How can I approach this? She is sick and loves my cats company but I do feel she is overstepping.
She has Ulcerative Colitis and works but is at home a lot.
I have a cat who has ventured over her way and she is completely smitten. I know he spends a lot of time with her and she adores him. I am pleased he brings her happiness but I do feel she feeds him (He has put on a lot of weight lately) and I barely see him as he is at her house.
She also texts me concerned comments at times about him being in a cat fight or not seeing him for a few days. It almost feels like it is her cat.
How can I approach this? She is sick and loves my cats company but I do feel she is overstepping.