Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:You sound exhausting. Stop panicking about this virus and nagging the F out of our DH.
Not the OP but wtf? Her husband is the one who is concerned about the virus and they have an at risk family member at home. He sounds clueless.
Anonymous wrote:You sound exhausting. Stop panicking about this virus and nagging the F out of our DH.
. You marry someone with add and you marry the whole package. Get over yourself.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:You know what else breaks up relationships, OP?
Unmedicated anxiety and unwarranted panic over things like this.
And being a control freak.
Anonymous wrote:Working on building up your immune system is more effective than wiping down shopping carts or using hand sanitizer.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We are in the midst of a worry about Covid19 in the states and abroad. Husband is very concerned.
Me: Did you wipe down the handle of the shopping cart? "I forgot". Did you wash your hands? "I forgot" Did you use the sanitizer "I forgot"
We do have an at-risk family member.
ADD will cause you to forget the basic steps that others can remember and make habitual.
It might be annoying in the midst of a normal day, but when you really need to trust the ADD person, you can't. And THAT is what breaks up relationships.
Correct. You can’t count on them. You have to do everything yourself and fix their messes.
Anonymous wrote:We are in the midst of a worry about Covid19 in the states and abroad. Husband is very concerned.
Me: Did you wipe down the handle of the shopping cart? "I forgot". Did you wash your hands? "I forgot" Did you use the sanitizer "I forgot"
We do have an at-risk family member.
ADD will cause you to forget the basic steps that others can remember and make habitual.
It might be annoying in the midst of a normal day, but when you really need to trust the ADD person, you can't. And THAT is what breaks up relationships.
Anonymous wrote:You know what else breaks up relationships, OP?
Unmedicated anxiety and unwarranted panic over things like this.