Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Maybe stop taking a pic of your kid every time they eat a snack or play on a swing? You know -- the things that kids have done every day of their lives for generations that don't need to be memorialized bc OMG it's soooo cute. Guess what he looks the same eating yogurt today as he did yesterday and the day before that.
i don't for a moment believe that you don't several pics at xmas (or whatever holiday you celebrate), bdays, recitals, school plays, vacations, visits with extended family etc. Just that results in 100s of pics vs the 24 pics on one roll of film that you used sparingly
Anonymous wrote:Maybe stop taking a pic of your kid every time they eat a snack or play on a swing? You know -- the things that kids have done every day of their lives for generations that don't need to be memorialized bc OMG it's soooo cute. Guess what he looks the same eating yogurt today as he did yesterday and the day before that.
Anonymous wrote:I make an annual photobook with Shutterfly. They are on a shelf in the living room and the kids regularly take them out to flip through them.
I'm also occasionally adding to photobooks for the kids that I plan to have printed and give to them when they go off to college. Keeping those edited to just the best pics is challenging and will likely end up being a 2-volume set for each child.
Anonymous wrote:Put the phone away and enjoy your kids. Take pics sometimes but you don’t have to document every moment. The kids will be better off if you just put the phone in your bag and leave it for a while.
Anonymous wrote:Put the phone away and enjoy your kids. Take pics sometimes but you don’t have to document every moment. The kids will be better off if you just put the phone in your bag and leave it for a while.
Anonymous wrote:My parents have 3 photo albums of my child hood and that kind of feels like enough to at age 38. I have a handful of pics of my baby years to see what I looked like and then one or two pics from bdays, dance recitals, vacations etc. I also have a shoe box of my own high school pictures and that seems like more than enough of football games, dances, and random pics of the same friends sitting in the hallway.
We get the albums out once every 5 years or so during a holiday gathering and flip through them. I feel like I want more albums or want more pics of the same vacations, 10 pics of the same holiday etc
I’m trying to reconcile that with the thousands of pics I already have of my one and two year old. Even and album a year for them feels like it’ll become way to much and far more than they’ll ever want someday. But if I don’t get a little plan in place now it’ll get more paralyzing to do anything as the digital piles of “amazing” and “special” and “funny” pics gets bigger
I do love having all the pics to flip through on my phone. I’m not taking about the volume of pics taken bc I enjoy them, I just don’t expect that when they’re adult men they would ever want volumes of printed documentation of every year