I have a Henry so obviously love the name but it is pretty popular, if that bothers you. Graham is ok but I wouldn’t use it unless it’s a family name or you have a strong positive association with it. Otherwise I wouldn’t like it enough to use it.

Love Graham. My kid had one in his playgroup and he was the sweetest kid, so good associations with that name.

I have a Graham that was almost a Henry.

Anonymous wrote:I’m in DC and have a 4 year old and know multiple Henry’s and no Graham’s, if that makes a difference to you. There was a year in daycare where Henry’s had to go by Henry last initial.

I think Graham is growing. I know two infants named Graham (one born to a family with multiple kids with "trendy" names) but no older kids.

Anonymous wrote:I think I would use Henry. This might be silly, but I’d be concerned about kids calling him graham cracker. I know kids can tease about anything, but why set up such an obvious one?

I have an 11 yr old Graham and can report that there really hasn’t been much (if any) calling him Graham cracker. Maybe when he’s 12....

I’m in DC and have a 4 year old and know multiple Henry’s and no Graham’s, if that makes a difference to you. There was a year in daycare where Henry’s had to go by Henry last initial.

Graham

I think I would use Henry. This might be silly, but I’d be concerned about kids calling him graham cracker. I know kids can tease about anything, but why set up such an obvious one?

Anonymous wrote:I love both. Especially graham

Agree

Anonymous wrote:Either one. Whichever matches your last name better.

This! I love them both and it should depend on which goes better with your last name.

Grant

Henry

Felix

I love both. Especially graham

Either one. Whichever matches your last name better.

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