Anonymous wrote:Day one, both kids.
Explain it to me like I'm an idiot, why is having a kid in the room with you safer? 1. It's proven to be less safe to have a kid in your bed with you. 2. Are you seriously going to wake up if you hear that your kid isn't breathing? Is SIDS or accidental suffocation preventable if a parent is in the room with you? Do you all just perch on the side of the pack and play and watch them sleep all night?
Our kids were always very nearby, but never next to or in the bed with us. Except for the first month of my first child's life, when I was too anxious to be more than a foot away from her. A wise, experienced mother finally made me get into my own bed and get some sleep.
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