Think about the things you like. When someone flirts with you, what gets you going? A little touch on the arm or hand? A certain look? You can’t assume everything that works for you will work for all other women, but basic flirting while on a date is pretty standard.

The best way to get over anxiety is to do what makes you anxious. If you’re able to do it without seeming like you’re planning it, pick a small goal like touching her hand on your next date, then watch for an opportunity and do it. Then you know it’s doable and it’ll seem less scary. If that’s really out of reach, start listing yourself as a sub looking for a domme

OP here. I dated men before. I'm 29. I feel like with men it was easier, because culturally men are sort of expected to be the aggressor. So I never really had to worry about how to break the ice. With women I meet them through apps and go on "dates". The dates however kinda feel like nothing more than hanging out with a friend, because I dont know how to cross the line into non-platonic. I'm scared to flirt heavily or touch them because I'm worried about coming off as creepy I want to balance I respect you, with I also think you are hot.....if that makes sense.

Did you date men before or do you have no dating experience at all? How old are you?

So this is really embarrassing, but I am a woman who's recently started dating other women. I know that I am strongly attracted women, but have no idea how to flirt. Can someone help me here? For instance, I don't know the kind of stuff to text or say when I'm out with interested women to let them know I am also interested.