Anonymous
Post 12/06/2019 12:35     Subject: Start of something dangerous?
Anonymous wrote:Why not? Could be your soulmate.


Hope you get cheated on, PP! Then you'll be free to find YOUR soulmate!
Anonymous
Post 12/06/2019 12:35     Subject: Start of something dangerous?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:She's just looking for free attention from you. Don't waste your time. Why are you on Instagram, anyway? You're a grown man FFS.


Why do assume OP is a man? "Mutual attraction" could suggest being bi-curious.


NP. Doesn't matter. OP is in a committed relationship, period. The fact OP is even asking the question means OP already knows there's a red flag here.

OP, if you were hoping to hear, "Go for it! It's perfectly harmless!" here...nah.

Anonymous
Post 12/06/2019 12:03     Subject: Start of something dangerous?
Obviously.
Anonymous
Post 12/05/2019 22:23     Subject: Re:Start of something dangerous?
How many years since college? How many years since you saw her last?
Anonymous
Post 12/05/2019 22:08     Subject: Start of something dangerous?
Go for it
Anonymous
Post 12/05/2019 12:47     Subject: Start of something dangerous?
Why not? Could be your soulmate.
Anonymous
Post 12/05/2019 12:45     Subject: Start of something dangerous?
Anonymous wrote:She's just looking for free attention from you. Don't waste your time. Why are you on Instagram, anyway? You're a grown man FFS.


Why do assume OP is a man? "Mutual attraction" could suggest being bi-curious.
Anonymous
Post 12/05/2019 11:50     Subject: Start of something dangerous?
She's just looking for free attention from you. Don't waste your time. Why are you on Instagram, anyway? You're a grown man FFS.
Anonymous
Post 12/05/2019 09:53     Subject: Re:Start of something dangerous?
Yep. You’re asking and that tells you about your frame of mind. Do t accept.
Anonymous
Post 12/05/2019 09:23     Subject: Re:Start of something dangerous?
I guess it matters how you use Instagram. I think I've messaged someone on there once? I'm friend with my college ex-boyfriends, as well as the one with whom I shared a mutual attraction but never acted on it on Instagram and it's never crossed my mind that it would be an issue. Now, if he called to say he was coming into town for work and did I want to meet him for room service at his hotel, that would be something different. But to me Instagram means nothing. You may feel differently.
Anonymous
Post 12/05/2019 09:09     Subject: Start of something dangerous?
If it were harmless, you wouldn't bother asking you'd just accept her.
Anonymous
Post 12/05/2019 09:01     Subject: Start of something dangerous?
How's your marriage OP? Sound like you need a refresher on that. If your marriage is solid, I'd say go ahead. If you are unsettled or unhappy, then give her a pass.

In the meantime, try to do something nice for your spouse today.
Anonymous
Post 12/05/2019 08:38     Subject: Re:Start of something dangerous?
The fact that you are even asking the question should tell you everything you need to know.
Anonymous
Post 12/05/2019 08:35     Subject: Start of something dangerous?
How old are you?
Anonymous
Post 12/05/2019 08:12     Subject: Start of something dangerous?
Woman from college with whom we shared a mutual attraction but never truly acted on due to naiveté has requested to follow my instagram. We are both married with kids. Bad idea to accept?