Anonymous
Post 11/19/2019 01:35     Subject: second date etiquette

You invite him in once you feel safe enough to be in private with him. Usually after the 3rd date for most people, but it depends on a lot. If in doubt, keep it out in public.
Anonymous
Post 11/18/2019 16:26     Subject: second date etiquette

When do you invite him in?
Anonymous
Post 11/18/2019 14:50     Subject: Re:second date etiquette

No, maybe on date 4 after his fingerprints had cleared the FBI data base.
Anonymous
Post 11/18/2019 10:21     Subject: second date etiquette

No way. No way. No way!
Anonymous
Post 11/18/2019 10:13     Subject: second date etiquette

2nd date if we met online and had no mutual connections? Probably not. I'd just meet him somewhere. I've known a few people over the years who seemed ok on first or second meeting, but revealed their true crazy not long afterward.
Anonymous
Post 11/18/2019 08:13     Subject: Re:second date etiquette

Why are they picking you up? I picked my husband up on date 3 because of snow and I have 4 wheel drive. My husband offered on date 4.
Anonymous
Post 11/18/2019 07:52     Subject: second date etiquette

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Would you let a guy you met online pick you up for a second date?


H_ll no. Meet.

Some random dude I met on line does not pick me up until date 8 or 10. Women get killed this way.


8 or 10 seems extreme....I would think by 3rd or 4th if you are able to verify who the person is. If you were that paranoid, I would probably think you have issues and there would be nothing after 3-4. Either that or I would assume you are hiding something.

By third or fourth date, also like to have verified that they are not in a relationship, and have them over to show I am not in a relationship.

Then we have Fava Beans and a nice Chianti.


Haha nice one
Anonymous
Post 11/18/2019 07:43     Subject: second date etiquette

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Would you let a guy you met online pick you up for a second date?


H_ll no. Meet.

Some random dude I met on line does not pick me up until date 8 or 10. Women get killed this way.


8 or 10 seems extreme....I would think by 3rd or 4th if you are able to verify who the person is. If you were that paranoid, I would probably think you have issues and there would be nothing after 3-4. Either that or I would assume you are hiding something.

By third or fourth date, also like to have verified that they are not in a relationship, and have them over to show I am not in a relationship.

Then we have Fava Beans and a nice Chianti.
Anonymous
Post 11/18/2019 06:56     Subject: second date etiquette

Anonymous wrote:Would you let a guy you met online pick you up for a second date?


H_ll no. Meet.

Some random dude I met on line does not pick me up until date 8 or 10. Women get killed this way.
Anonymous
Post 11/18/2019 06:55     Subject: Re:second date etiquette

nope
Anonymous
Post 11/18/2019 06:49     Subject: Re:second date etiquette

Meet
Anonymous
Post 11/18/2019 01:18     Subject: second date etiquette

Anonymous wrote:No, I wouldn't. I bring my own car or use an uber.


Same
Anonymous
Post 11/17/2019 22:41     Subject: second date etiquette

No, I wouldn't. I bring my own car or use an uber.
Anonymous
Post 11/17/2019 22:04     Subject: second date etiquette

Would you let a guy you met online pick you up for a second date?