Anonymous
Post 11/13/2019 03:55     Subject: Help! A friend is leaving the country and dumped an unwanted pair of lovebirds on us

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Take it outside and open the cage door. Problem solved.


Do not do this.


It is illegal to release domesticated non-native species into the wild. And it won't survive.
It may be illegal, but it would be difficult to prove unless she was seen doing it.


It is really cruel. The birds will freeze to death almost immediately.

Man, is it really that hard not to be a huge a$$hole?
Anonymous
Post 11/13/2019 02:59     Subject: Help! A friend is leaving the country and dumped an unwanted pair of lovebirds on us

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Take it outside and open the cage door. Problem solved.


Do not do this.


It is illegal to release domesticated non-native species into the wild. And it won't survive.
It may be illegal, but it would be difficult to prove unless she was seen doing it.



It's cruel to release them. You are basically sending them to a miserable death.
Anonymous
Post 11/13/2019 02:58     Subject: Help! A friend is leaving the country and dumped an unwanted pair of lovebirds on us

OP, please do NOT release them. You are basically setting them up for a cruel and inhumane death. They will either starve slowly to death, freeze to death at night with the temperatures we've been having, or be eaten by a predator.


There are bird rescues that take lovebirds. Consider a place like this: https://www.phoenixlanding.org/

Anonymous
Post 11/13/2019 02:51     Subject: Re:Help! A friend is leaving the country and dumped an unwanted pair of lovebirds on us

Anonymous wrote:There must be an aviary somewhere. Do not let the birds out because they will not survive. Ask the National Zoo, if they want to keep the birds.



They will not take them in their aviaries. Lovebirds are territorial and can't be housed with other bird species. I'm not even sure they can be housed with other lovebirds if they are socialized/bonded in a pair versus a flock because of their territorial nature.
Anonymous
Post 11/13/2019 02:31     Subject: Help! A friend is leaving the country and dumped an unwanted pair of lovebirds on us

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Take it outside and open the cage door. Problem solved.


Do not do this.


It is illegal to release domesticated non-native species into the wild. And it won't survive.
It may be illegal, but it would be difficult to prove unless she was seen doing it.
Anonymous
Post 11/12/2019 22:17     Subject: Help! A friend is leaving the country and dumped an unwanted pair of lovebirds on us

If you are serious, I will take them, OP. I used to keep finches, cockatiels, parrots, and parakeets so I'm experienced with birdies. Love birds are nice because they get to hang out together.
Anonymous
Post 11/12/2019 22:06     Subject: Help! A friend is leaving the country and dumped an unwanted pair of lovebirds on us

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Take it outside and open the cage door. Problem solved.


Do not do this.


It is illegal to release domesticated non-native species into the wild. And it won't survive.
Anonymous
Post 11/12/2019 22:04     Subject: Re:Help! A friend is leaving the country and dumped an unwanted pair of lovebirds on us

There must be an aviary somewhere. Do not let the birds out because they will not survive. Ask the National Zoo, if they want to keep the birds.
Anonymous
Post 11/12/2019 22:03     Subject: Help! A friend is leaving the country and dumped an unwanted pair of lovebirds on us

Anonymous wrote:Take it outside and open the cage door. Problem solved.


Do not do this.
Anonymous
Post 11/12/2019 21:54     Subject: Help! A friend is leaving the country and dumped an unwanted pair of lovebirds on us

Anonymous wrote:Nothing is "dumped on" you that your husband AGREED to take.

No means no. He didn't say no. He said yes.

You don't get to act like the friend was in the wrong. The friend asked. The right response was N-O but your idiot of a husband said Y-E-S. So this wasn't a dumping, sweetie.


You forgot the adobe element of your response in an advice thread.
Anonymous
Post 11/12/2019 21:47     Subject: Help! A friend is leaving the country and dumped an unwanted pair of lovebirds on us

Nothing is "dumped on" you that your husband AGREED to take.

No means no. He didn't say no. He said yes.

You don't get to act like the friend was in the wrong. The friend asked. The right response was N-O but your idiot of a husband said Y-E-S. So this wasn't a dumping, sweetie.
Anonymous
Post 11/12/2019 21:10     Subject: Help! A friend is leaving the country and dumped an unwanted pair of lovebirds on us

Take it outside and open the cage door. Problem solved.
Anonymous
Post 11/12/2019 21:07     Subject: Help! A friend is leaving the country and dumped an unwanted pair of lovebirds on us

Play some Skynyrd!
Anonymous
Post 11/12/2019 21:03     Subject: Help! A friend is leaving the country and dumped an unwanted pair of lovebirds on us

Yes, your local animal shelter will take them. Just bring the birds cage and all to your local shelter tomorrow.
Anonymous
Post 11/12/2019 21:00     Subject: Help! A friend is leaving the country and dumped an unwanted pair of lovebirds on us

So, my DH has a friend who is either leaving the country or moving apartments to a place that doesn't allow pets (he is not the most reasonable individual ever). He has somehow guilt-tripped DH into agreeing to take in his pair of lovebirds who are arriving tomorrow. Tomorrow!!

I'm livid of course that DH would do that but that's water under the bridge. What do I do with them? I am friendly to all animals but I do not want a pet, and I absolutely do not want a bird in a cage. I just don't. I will of course take care of what is dumped on me but I really really really do not want to have it long term.

Is there a rescue society or shelter that will take them? Or adoption? Or something?

To be honest, birds in a cage never seemed happy to me. It is so counter intuitive. I never want this.