Anonymous wrote:OP here. Thanks for the replies. We don’t want to transfer if it’s not normal, and don’t want to abort. We’ve been in a holding pattern of not wanting to destroy and not wanting to donate... so at this point (as I’m nearing 39), we feel like the only way to not have regrets is to test & transfer (pending results & if it survives all of that). Just wondering what the process and timeline looks like. We would welcome another child, but also don’t feel like anyone is missing from our family, if that makes sense.
I do remember your other post. Honestly it sounds like you don't want the embryo but have an objection to letting it go.
In your position I would thaw, test and refreeze.