Anonymous
10/08/2019 12:19
Subject: Why don't people leave their spouse instead of having affairs?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:How would a sahm support herself genius?
She gets a job, duh.
Why would she do that when she has someone bringing home the money already? It's much easier to get a side piece than a $200k job for a sahm
Anonymous
10/08/2019 12:12
Subject: Why don't people leave their spouse instead of having affairs?
Anonymous wrote:I never understood this. If you're able to find other people that you prefer than who you're with, then what's the point of wasting everyone's time? I read these threads of how people miss their ex-APs so much and it's honestly hurtful to even read and I can't imagine what their spouses would think.
I just need this explained to me.
Because they don’t want to leave their spouse.
Anonymous
10/08/2019 12:10
Subject: Why don't people leave their spouse instead of having affairs?
Anonymous wrote:What? Are you dumb? Because divorce costs A LOT OF MONEY and blows up your children’s life! Christ, if I found out my spouse was banging someone from work, divorce would be the absolute last resort FOR ME, the cheated-on spouse. It has nothing to do with “honoring marriage vows” or whatever the f** people on this forum whinge about, and everything to do with keeping a stable family unit for the kids.
If your husband is balls deep in someone other than you, your family unit is not stable.
Anonymous
10/08/2019 12:08
Subject: Why don't people leave their spouse instead of having affairs?
What? Are you dumb? Because divorce costs A LOT OF MONEY and blows up your children’s life! Christ, if I found out my spouse was banging someone from work, divorce would be the absolute last resort FOR ME, the cheated-on spouse. It has nothing to do with “honoring marriage vows” or whatever the f** people on this forum whinge about, and everything to do with keeping a stable family unit for the kids.
Anonymous
10/08/2019 12:05
Subject: Why don't people leave their spouse instead of having affairs?
Anonymous wrote:How would a sahm support herself genius?
She gets a job, duh.
Anonymous
10/08/2019 12:04
Subject: Why don't people leave their spouse instead of having affairs?
Anonymous wrote:I never understood this. If you're able to find other people that you prefer than who you're with, then what's the point of wasting everyone's time? I read these threads of how people miss their ex-APs so much and it's honestly hurtful to even read and I can't imagine what their spouses would think.
I just need this explained to me.
Aversion to conflict.
Don't want to lose daily interaction with children.
Inertia.
Finances.
Anonymous
10/08/2019 12:02
Subject: Why don't people leave their spouse instead of having affairs?
Anonymous wrote:Sometimes the AP doesn't feel the same way and doesn't want to leave their spouse.
In my mind, if someone is having an affair, then it seems like that person would be better off spending their time finding someone else. It's line they are wasting everyone's life.
Anonymous
10/08/2019 11:59
Subject: Why don't people leave their spouse instead of having affairs?
Cheater does not want to give spouse half of assets.
Cheater has no moral compass. Cheater is ok with
risking STD's.
Cheater has no moral compass. Cheater is ok with
risking STD's.
Anonymous
10/08/2019 11:58
Subject: Why don't people leave their spouse instead of having affairs?
Money
Kids
Kids
Anonymous
10/08/2019 11:56
Subject: Why don't people leave their spouse instead of having affairs?
I thought most APs are for sex and excitement, not for long term.
Anonymous
10/08/2019 11:53
Subject: Why don't people leave their spouse instead of having affairs?
health insurance from spouse
Anonymous
10/08/2019 11:52
Subject: Why don't people leave their spouse instead of having affairs?
You don't break up your kids home for an affair. Do you not have kids OP?
Anonymous
10/08/2019 11:49
Subject: Why don't people leave their spouse instead of having affairs?
Sometimes the AP doesn't feel the same way and doesn't want to leave their spouse.
Sometimes people stay married "for the kids".
Sometimes people stay married "for the kids".
Anonymous
10/08/2019 11:47
Subject: Why don't people leave their spouse instead of having affairs?
How would a sahm support herself genius?
Anonymous
10/08/2019 11:46
Subject: Why don't people leave their spouse instead of having affairs?
I never understood this. If you're able to find other people that you prefer than who you're with, then what's the point of wasting everyone's time? I read these threads of how people miss their ex-APs so much and it's honestly hurtful to even read and I can't imagine what their spouses would think.
I just need this explained to me.
I just need this explained to me.