I’ve been with SGF for over a year. I was 38 when we started and we went straight to Donor egg due to my diagnosis (I don’t want to debate that in this discussion, I know that is controversial for many).
We opted for the shared risk and 3:1 shared donor program. We ended up with only 2 PGS normal embryos and while it met their minimum it was much less than what I know some others have received. Our first FET failed, I had to push and beg for an ERA and ReCeptivaDX test and glad we did my ERA showed non-responsive.
We finally transferred our last, and I’m currently having a miscarriage at 7 weeks with a donor egg PGS tested embryo (it feels so cold to say it like that).
My husband is talking about spending even more money to move to the 2:1 shared donor program but I can’t help to think something is off. I feel helpless in that I don’t see many options for donor egg and I’m technically in NOVA. I can tell most people don’t love SGF and I can say they have caused a lot of distress this past year. I love my local office staff but HQ needs to be overhauled.
I’ve read through many of the posts on DE here and I still feel confused. I fear that the lab or embryologist at SGF are awful or something else is going on they aren’t willing to look at. We were originally allocated 8 eggs and 5 fertilized, I felt that was a bit low for no known MFI and a donor egg. We had absolutely no day 5 embryos, lost 1 at day 7 and froze 4 and sent them for PGS testing. Only two were PGS normal.
I know my doctor well enough he will just say this stuff happens, but looking at these stats it just doesn’t add up. Best case only 1 of our embryos would of been viable and I just happen to lose that due to my non-receptive status at time of transfer? My gut just says something doesn’t seem right.
I’ve seen CCRM mentioned but it looks like any option I go with I would still monitor at SGF? Can anyone provide thoughts or insight? And what other clinics would you consider. The money back guarantee was my safety net, but I feel like I’ve cost our family so much pain.
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