Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I miscarried my first PGS normal and for various medical reasons (some due to the miscarriage), it was 10 months before I could transfer again.
I'm really, really glad I had more than one embryo.
2nd one was successful. 1 remaining. Now on the fence regarding using it to try for a second child. At the time I did IVF I was just desperate to have 1 child.
I'm sorry about your miscarriage. Did your RE ever give you any reasons for it or testing or anything? That's really rough.
Anonymous wrote:how many UNTESTED blasts should one have then per child wanted?
Anonymous wrote:I miscarried my first PGS normal and for various medical reasons (some due to the miscarriage), it was 10 months before I could transfer again.
I'm really, really glad I had more than one embryo.
2nd one was successful. 1 remaining. Now on the fence regarding using it to try for a second child. At the time I did IVF I was just desperate to have 1 child.
Anonymous wrote:Are you older and is time a huge issue? If you truly only want one child, I'd say do one retrieval at a time. If your transfer doesn't work out, most likely it'll just be an initial BFN and you can move on to another retrieval fairly quickly. The biggest delay you would possibly have would be if there was a later miscarriage, in which it would take several months to have another retrieval. It's unfortunately a very real possibility for all transfers and pregnancies, but the odds of that happening would hopefully be very low since your embryo is PGS normal.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I did back to back cycles after finding out that we only had one normal PGS embryo for a couple of reasons:
1) I did not want to have to start back at zero if it didn't take
2) Our doctor said that he has seen many families think they only want one, esp because they have struggled to conceive, but many times they are right back in his office asking about the next round after a year with their first babies
3) Time is not on my side, I'm almost 39
Big difference for us, though is that we had insurance, so with testing each round was around 9K. If we had been paying fully out of pocket, I might have had a different path.
We ended up with 2 more PGS normal embryos.
Thanks for this perspective. How many children did you end up having fro the 3 ?
I am pregnant with my first from the first transfer.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I did back to back cycles after finding out that we only had one normal PGS embryo for a couple of reasons:
1) I did not want to have to start back at zero if it didn't take
2) Our doctor said that he has seen many families think they only want one, esp because they have struggled to conceive, but many times they are right back in his office asking about the next round after a year with their first babies
3) Time is not on my side, I'm almost 39
Big difference for us, though is that we had insurance, so with testing each round was around 9K. If we had been paying fully out of pocket, I might have had a different path.
We ended up with 2 more PGS normal embryos.
Thanks for this perspective. How many children did you end up having fro the 3 ?
Anonymous wrote:I did back to back cycles after finding out that we only had one normal PGS embryo for a couple of reasons:
1) I did not want to have to start back at zero if it didn't take
2) Our doctor said that he has seen many families think they only want one, esp because they have struggled to conceive, but many times they are right back in his office asking about the next round after a year with their first babies
3) Time is not on my side, I'm almost 39
Big difference for us, though is that we had insurance, so with testing each round was around 9K. If we had been paying fully out of pocket, I might have had a different path.
We ended up with 2 more PGS normal embryos.