Anonymous wrote:Why not allow her to fulfill her sexual needs with others? She didn't take a vow of celibacy did she? If she liked skydiving, and you didn't skydive, would you tell her she couldn't skydive with anyone else?

Because the wife is cheating on the other wife. Hello?

Any reason this is in the LGBTQ forum?

Why not allow her to fulfill her sexual needs with others? She didn't take a vow of celibacy did she? If she liked skydiving, and you didn't skydive, would you tell her she couldn't skydive with anyone else?

With a co-worker, on a business trip. We’ve had a lot of issues lately, and she has been expressing them to me. I’m dealing with full blown menopause, and all the treats that come with it, including depression and low sex drive. I guess she just got tired. I don’t want to give up on my marriage, but can it survive the infidelity?