Depends on the day. Sometimes it’s rough sex with a tall, dark, and handsome stranger. Other days it’s like another PP indicated— my own, small apartment that’s neat and tidy where I live alone and no one bothers me.

I’m also an ex party girl whose deflated by young kids and the demands of family life.

Rough sex.

Winning lottery ticket for at least $100mil

+1 to a clean house and quiet alone time. College days were wild and crazy. Marriage and kids makes me crave nothing but sleep and a clean house.

Exes, never-weres, don’t exists, colleagues, friends, men, women, that about covers it.

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Anonymous wrote:a small, clean apartment of my own with no clutter and no one touching me.

Were you like that in your college years and 20’s?

Typical college party girl? Cute, fun, lots of boyfriend's. Marriage and kids sucks the libido out of me

Sleeping well.
Not having to work.
Having enough money.

Anonymous wrote:a small, clean apartment of my own with no clutter and no one touching me.

Were you like that in your college years and 20’s?

a small, clean apartment of my own with no clutter and no one touching me.

Usually a casual acquaintance or a vague idea of someone I imagine from scratch.

So I’m one who said I don’t fantasize. But of the very few times I have...it was an ex.

A clean house

Never ex-husband -- too much of a downer. Not ex-boyfriends, because there were reasons it didn't last.

Yes to one hot weekend friend. Yes to sort of vague ideal image of a guy. Yes to some fictional characters, but not to celebrities -- know too much about their seedier sides. However, there are 2 or 3 notable exceptions to the latter.

Dh. 1 or 2 casual acquaintances. Past experiences (the actual experience not necessarily the person). DS' karate teacher, who is also a friend. Sometimes celebrities but not usually. I have an active imagination haha

Sex with an ex? Hollywood celebrity?