Do it sooner rather than later. I was over 40 and everyone kept saying it was my age.
I had had:
2 transfers with known PGS normals, BFN
Day 3 transfer on a cycle where I didnt respond well and only got 3 eggs. BFP but ended in miscarriage.
2 Fresh transfers of untested embryos, BFN
1 FET of banked 2 embryos from above cycle, BFN
Then had ERA showing I window was off. So many embryos wasted. By the time I got the era results and tried to do one last retrieval my eggs were done. We only got 1 embryo. Used new transfer protocol which resulted in a BFP but 2nd miscarriage.