Anonymous
Post 08/30/2019 21:20     Subject: Should I tell his wife?

Hell yes. cc him.
Anonymous
Post 08/30/2019 21:20     Subject: Re:Should I tell his wife?

When Monica Lewinsky tried OP's tactic, the entire US government branded her a "crazy stalker".
Anonymous
Post 08/30/2019 21:16     Subject: Re:Should I tell his wife?

Anonymous wrote:Mind your own damn business.


I mean it kind of is her business, to be fair.
Anonymous
Post 08/30/2019 21:04     Subject: Re:Should I tell his wife?

you are likely a troll but if you are real....you already enabled a homewrecker, don't actually be one.
Anonymous
Post 08/30/2019 21:04     Subject: Should I tell his wife?

Get your own husband and leave these people alone
Anonymous
Post 08/30/2019 21:01     Subject: Should I tell his wife?

Move on and figure out how you got sucked in that sh*t.

- Used to sleep with a married guy and didn't understand how damaging it all was. Went to therapy. Now in a healthy relationship.
Anonymous
Post 08/30/2019 20:59     Subject: Re:Should I tell his wife?

I would let her know in some way where she can’t trace it back to you.
Anonymous
Post 08/30/2019 20:53     Subject: Should I tell his wife?

No definitely not.
Anonymous
Post 08/30/2019 20:52     Subject: Should I tell his wife?

Just stay away from both of them.
Anonymous
Post 08/30/2019 20:51     Subject: Should I tell his wife?

Anonymous wrote:Long and short, I slept with a married man. Twice. It was a fling, he love-bombed me to bits, I called it off after a few weeks out of crippling guilt - we’ve gone no contact. He’s not a clever cheater - I know his real name, address, job, etc etc. I also have his wife’s information.

Now a dilemma: do I tell his wife? They’re mid-forties, married nearly twenty years, two teens. Established. That said, he mentioned that he’d cheated on her in the past and after much struggle they were able to stay married. I feel sorry for the woman, as I’m sure I’m not the only one. But maybe she doesn’t want to know.

WWYD?


troll fail
Anonymous
Post 08/30/2019 20:50     Subject: Should I tell his wife?

My vote is yes, tell her. Give her details. That way, even if she does stay, she can use it against him, which he deserves. Tell her.
Anonymous
Post 08/30/2019 20:49     Subject: Re:Should I tell his wife?

She knows he’s a cheater and decided to stay with him anyway. There’s no value to you saying anything.
Anonymous
Post 08/30/2019 20:38     Subject: Re:Should I tell his wife?

Mind your own damn business.
Anonymous
Post 08/30/2019 20:37     Subject: Should I tell his wife?

Don’t tell her
Anonymous
Post 08/30/2019 20:35     Subject: Should I tell his wife?

Long and short, I slept with a married man. Twice. It was a fling, he love-bombed me to bits, I called it off after a few weeks out of crippling guilt - we’ve gone no contact. He’s not a clever cheater - I know his real name, address, job, etc etc. I also have his wife’s information.

Now a dilemma: do I tell his wife? They’re mid-forties, married nearly twenty years, two teens. Established. That said, he mentioned that he’d cheated on her in the past and after much struggle they were able to stay married. I feel sorry for the woman, as I’m sure I’m not the only one. But maybe she doesn’t want to know.

WWYD?