Anonymous
Post 09/02/2019 22:05     Subject: Question for men on their 1st marriage with wives who were married before

Who cares
Anonymous
Post 09/02/2019 18:26     Subject: Question for men on their 1st marriage with wives who were married before

Yes obviously
Anonymous
Post 09/02/2019 09:14     Subject: Re:Question for men on their 1st marriage with wives who were married before

Thank you in advance
Anonymous
Post 09/02/2019 01:28     Subject: Question for men on their 1st marriage with wives who were married before

OP - To answer your question, yes.
Anonymous
Post 09/01/2019 19:22     Subject: Question for men on their 1st marriage with wives who were married before

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote: I’m definitely glad she’s had a number of sex partners before me.


Is that number in excess of 50? 100? 150?


14 is the answer. I wish I could thank each of them.


Is it possible you mean 140? Please confirm.

WTF. Most women (people) haven't slept with 140 other people.
Anonymous
Post 09/01/2019 14:25     Subject: Question for men on their 1st marriage with wives who were married before

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote: I’m definitely glad she’s had a number of sex partners before me.


Is that number in excess of 50? 100? 150?


14 is the answer. I wish I could thank each of them.


Is it possible you mean 140? Please confirm.
Anonymous
Post 09/01/2019 09:50     Subject: Question for men on their 1st marriage with wives who were married before

Anonymous wrote:I am the opposite: a woman who is the second wife of my first and only husband. In the wedding planning phase, I wished that he hadn't already done it before, so that it would be a new adventure for us both. After we got married, I realized that every relationship is its own adventure and I was glad that he'd had experience working through conflict in his first, short marriage (right out of undergrad). Everything that we've been through together in the past decade has eclipsed whatever came before for either of us. I would feel differently if I were trying to come after a long-term spouse/co-parent.


Thank you. This is what the post was intended to ask about, not # of sex partners.
Anonymous
Post 08/31/2019 23:04     Subject: Question for men on their 1st marriage with wives who were married before

I am the opposite: a woman who is the second wife of my first and only husband. In the wedding planning phase, I wished that he hadn't already done it before, so that it would be a new adventure for us both. After we got married, I realized that every relationship is its own adventure and I was glad that he'd had experience working through conflict in his first, short marriage (right out of undergrad). Everything that we've been through together in the past decade has eclipsed whatever came before for either of us. I would feel differently if I were trying to come after a long-term spouse/co-parent.
Anonymous
Post 08/31/2019 20:14     Subject: Question for men on their 1st marriage with wives who were married before

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote: I’m definitely glad she’s had a number of sex partners before me.


Is that number in excess of 50? 100? 150?


14 is the answer. I wish I could thank each of them.
Anonymous
Post 08/31/2019 20:12     Subject: Question for men on their 1st marriage with wives who were married before

Men don’t think this way.
Anonymous
Post 08/31/2019 19:53     Subject: Question for men on their 1st marriage with wives who were married before

Anonymous wrote: I’m definitely glad she’s had a number of sex partners before me.


Is that number in excess of 50? 100? 150?
Anonymous
Post 08/30/2019 23:22     Subject: Question for men on their 1st marriage with wives who were married before

Man here. I could not care any less that I wasn’t her first husband, and part of me is almost glad for it. I’m definitely glad she’s had a number of sex partners before me.
Anonymous
Post 08/30/2019 17:29     Subject: Question for men on their 1st marriage with wives who were married before

Lol, no. She wasn't "pure" when she married her first husband.
Anonymous
Post 08/30/2019 17:29     Subject: Question for men on their 1st marriage with wives who were married before

Assuming you love your wife and are happy in the marriage, at some level do you wish she had not been married before? That is, both of you would have had the big first wedding and explored how to make a marriage work together rather than her already experiencing some of this?