I was diagnosed with VP a few years ago. It was also my first pregnancy and I was planning on delivering at Sibley. After getting diagnosed, my OB recommended switching practices and delivering at a hospital with a more advanced NICU, so I wound up delivering at Holy Cross at 34 weeks.
My MFM was Dr. Gallagher, whom I loved. I switched to CWC for the main practice (but I didn’t love them).
My advice is to choose a hospital close to home with a high level NICU. Also look into NICUs that allow “rooming in” because the absolute hardest part for me was getting discharged and leaving my preemie at the hospital. (It was only a week or so, but it was rough.)
I managed to avoid the extended hospital stay before delivering, but some would say that was an unwise decision. In the end, I got a healthy baby, which is all that matters.