Anonymous
08/17/2019 12:39
Subject: If a couple doesn’t want more kids and consider surgical options, who should do it. Husband or wife?
Anonymous wrote:Seems like about 95% of the time it is the husband. The only time I hear of a woman getting her tubes tied is during a C Section but not as a separate surgery
I know a woman who did, but her DH is horrible and was actively messing with her BC. Trust me, no one thinks he’s reasonable.
Anonymous
08/17/2019 12:34
Subject: If a couple doesn’t want more kids and consider surgical options, who should do it. Husband or wife?
Husband unless you're already on the table for a C-section and want to get your tubes tied. There is no other answer here as far as I'm concerned
Anonymous
08/17/2019 12:34
Subject: If a couple doesn’t want more kids and consider surgical options, who should do it. Husband or wife?
I had my tubal done during my c-section with our 2nd. Had I delivered vaginally, it would have been on DH to get a vasectomy.
Anonymous
08/17/2019 12:27
Subject: If a couple doesn’t want more kids and consider surgical options, who should do it. Husband or wife?
Husband. Less risky and can be reversed if needed.
Anonymous
08/17/2019 12:25
Subject: If a couple doesn’t want more kids and consider surgical options, who should do it. Husband or wife?
Husband, because it is a less invasive, less risky surgery.
Anonymous
08/17/2019 12:19
Subject: Re:If a couple doesn’t want more kids and consider surgical options, who should do it. Husband or wife?
We both did it. I had my tubes tied during my c-section. He had a vasectomy 6 months later. We wanted to be 100% certain that there are no more babies.
Anonymous
08/17/2019 11:59
Subject: If a couple doesn’t want more kids and consider surgical options, who should do it. Husband or wife?
Husband. Not only is it less invasive, the woman has already beared the burden of the birth control for decades (usually).
Anonymous
08/17/2019 11:53
Subject: If a couple doesn’t want more kids and consider surgical options, who should do it. Husband or wife?
Seems like about 95% of the time it is the husband. The only time I hear of a woman getting her tubes tied is during a C Section but not as a separate surgery
Anonymous
08/17/2019 11:53
Subject: Re:If a couple doesn’t want more kids and consider surgical options, who should do it. Husband or wife?
Anonymous wrote:Husband. I carried two kids and pushed them out of my body, so he can do something.
This, although in my case it was three kids. His turn to take one for the team.
Anonymous
08/17/2019 11:51
Subject: If a couple doesn’t want more kids and consider surgical options, who should do it. Husband or wife?
Anonymous wrote:Husband, DUH. Not too invasive, outpatient, low-risk, etc., etc.
This. My DH was happy to do it. We don’t have biokids together.
Anonymous
08/17/2019 11:47
Subject: If a couple doesn’t want more kids and consider surgical options, who should do it. Husband or wife?
Any husbands care to weigh in?
Anonymous
08/17/2019 11:44
Subject: If a couple doesn’t want more kids and consider surgical options, who should do it. Husband or wife?
Husband. Less invasive.
Anonymous
08/17/2019 11:44
Subject: If a couple doesn’t want more kids and consider surgical options, who should do it. Husband or wife?
Husband, DUH. Not too invasive, outpatient, low-risk, etc., etc.
Anonymous
08/17/2019 11:43
Subject: Re:If a couple doesn’t want more kids and consider surgical options, who should do it. Husband or wife?
Husband. I carried two kids and pushed them out of my body, so he can do something.
Anonymous
08/17/2019 11:42
Subject: If a couple doesn’t want more kids and consider surgical options, who should do it. Husband or wife?
Question as above. Friends just did this and DH & I are discussing