Anonymous
08/08/2019 19:27
Subject: Should I be honest with a friend & tell her the reason she is still single is bcause she has 4 kids?
Its probably her or the dynamic. 4 kids is a lot but its workable. If she dates younger men and she doesn't want more kids that is a huge issue.
Anonymous
08/08/2019 19:26
Subject: Should I be honest with a friend & tell her the reason she is still single is bcause she has 4 kids?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I have no kids and I’m m single. My best friend has 3 and she is dating tons of guys. I think personality is the key. Mine sucks hers not so much.
Do they know she has 3 kids? Probably not.
Yes she’s very open about it. None have seemed to care. She mostly dates younger guys though. She is 38 and they are 25-30
So you're saying those guys probably don't care because they're not in it for long term.
Anonymous
08/08/2019 19:26
Subject: Should I be honest with a friend & tell her the reason she is still single is bcause she has 4 kids?
Anonymous wrote:To what end is telling her this. She can’t ditch the kids the way she could lose 50 lbs or quit smoking or get rid of the 11s between her eyes with a little Botox.
Two words: medical experiments.
Anonymous
08/08/2019 19:21
Subject: Should I be honest with a friend & tell her the reason she is still single is bcause she has 4 kids?
Does she want to date you and you don't want to? Then, yes, be honest. But why would you speak for everyone else?
Anonymous
08/08/2019 19:21
Subject: Should I be honest with a friend & tell her the reason she is still single is bcause she has 4 kids?
To what end is telling her this. She can’t ditch the kids the way she could lose 50 lbs or quit smoking or get rid of the 11s between her eyes with a little Botox.
They are her kids. If guys are scared off by the fact she has three kids, this benefits her and the kids. It would be much worse to marry a man who doesn’t want to be a committed stepfather.
They are her kids. If guys are scared off by the fact she has three kids, this benefits her and the kids. It would be much worse to marry a man who doesn’t want to be a committed stepfather.
Anonymous
08/08/2019 19:19
Subject: Should I be honest with a friend & tell her the reason she is still single is bcause she has 4 kids?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I have no kids and I’m m single. My best friend has 3 and she is dating tons of guys. I think personality is the key. Mine sucks hers not so much.
Do they know she has 3 kids? Probably not.
Yes she’s very open about it. None have seemed to care. She mostly dates younger guys though. She is 38 and they are 25-30
Anonymous
08/08/2019 19:18
Subject: Should I be honest with a friend & tell her the reason she is still single is bcause she has 4 kids?
My cousin had three kids with three different dads by age 23 (long story). Her childhood best friend married her and they have been happily married for 25 years.
Anonymous
08/08/2019 19:18
Subject: Should I be honest with a friend & tell her the reason she is still single is bcause she has 4 kids?
Anonymous wrote:I have no kids and I’m m single. My best friend has 3 and she is dating tons of guys. I think personality is the key. Mine sucks hers not so much.
Do they know she has 3 kids? Probably not.
Anonymous
08/08/2019 19:16
Subject: Should I be honest with a friend & tell her the reason she is still single is bcause she has 4 kids?
Anonymous wrote:My idiot stepfather married my mo. With 7 kids—although only 5 were still at home. That’s not the reason she’s not getting married.
Yikes!
He must have been around 50 or 60 and she must have been in her 30s.
Anonymous
08/08/2019 19:14
Subject: Should I be honest with a friend & tell her the reason she is still single is bcause she has 4 kids?
I have no kids and I’m m single. My best friend has 3 and she is dating tons of guys. I think personality is the key. Mine sucks hers not so much.
Anonymous
08/08/2019 19:13
Subject: Should I be honest with a friend & tell her the reason she is still single is bcause she has 4 kids?
My idiot stepfather married my mo. With 7 kids—although only 5 were still at home. That’s not the reason she’s not getting married.
Anonymous
08/08/2019 19:12
Subject: Should I be honest with a friend & tell her the reason she is still single is bcause she has 4 kids?
I would not say anything because, well... what is she supposed to do about it? You are stating (what you think is) the obvious.
Anonymous
08/08/2019 19:12
Subject: Should I be honest with a friend & tell her the reason she is still single is bcause she has 4 kids?
Do you want her to stop talking to you for a while? Go ahead and tell her.
Anonymous
08/08/2019 19:09
Subject: Should I be honest with a friend & tell her the reason she is still single is bcause she has 4 kids?
If it's that obvious, she already knows deep down.
Anonymous
08/08/2019 19:07
Subject: Should I be honest with a friend & tell her the reason she is still single is bcause she has 4 kids?
Honesty is the best policy.
Deep down inside she must already know this though.
Am I right?
Deep down inside she must already know this though.
Am I right?