Anonymous
08/04/2019 11:14
Subject: Re:Post divorce relationships
Anonymous wrote:After my divorce I had a bunch of short term relationships to catch up on certain things such as fun and sex but after two years of that I’ve been in one relationship for almost three years. I’m not sure where it will end up but so far it’s working.
This was me. I had 3 short term things that were a lot of fun. I settled down with the 4th person I dated.
Anonymous
08/04/2019 10:31
Subject: Post divorce relationships
One 2yr fwb relationship; one more serious one that is going on 2yrs. A ton of first and second and third date type things in between.
Anonymous
08/03/2019 00:29
Subject: Post divorce relationships
I have not had a serious relationship since divorcing a few years ago, at 31. I’m in no rush. I have a FWB - it works for now. My standard is finding someone who “matches” my FWB and is local and wants a commitment. I’m not holding my breath
Anonymous
08/02/2019 23:33
Subject: Re:Post divorce relationships
I’ve been married to mine 11 years.
Anonymous
08/02/2019 22:43
Subject: Post divorce relationships
Anonymous wrote:I was married for 19 years. Only had 1 relationship post divorce. Married that guy. So happy.
Not the OP, but you gave me hope! Thank you!
Anonymous
08/02/2019 16:02
Subject: Post divorce relationships
Still going 16 years later.
Anonymous
08/02/2019 15:53
Subject: Post divorce relationships
I was married for 19 years. Only had 1 relationship post divorce. Married that guy. So happy.
Anonymous
08/01/2019 06:32
Subject: Post divorce relationships
First real relationship post-divorce lasted two years, same with the second real relationship. Had a few short ones (3 months ish) and a number of "dating" situations. Now in a fairly serious relationship going on 3 months and think this one has a chance of really working out....
Anonymous
08/01/2019 02:01
Subject: Post divorce relationships
Five years.
Anonymous
08/01/2019 00:00
Subject: Post divorce relationships
I've been divorced for three years and have dated a lot, including a couple long term FWB-type dating that has dropped off whenever one of us is in a relationship and picked up when we're both single.
For relationships, I've had three that have each lasted five to six months, and have ended because we realized it wouldn't get more serious so better to end sooner than later.
For relationships, I've had three that have each lasted five to six months, and have ended because we realized it wouldn't get more serious so better to end sooner than later.
Anonymous
07/31/2019 23:50
Subject: Re:Post divorce relationships
1- 1.5 years was my max. I was serious about settling down with the right person.
Anonymous
07/31/2019 23:47
Subject: Re:Post divorce relationships
After my divorce I had a bunch of short term relationships to catch up on certain things such as fun and sex but after two years of that I’ve been in one relationship for almost three years. I’m not sure where it will end up but so far it’s working.
Anonymous
07/31/2019 23:37
Subject: Post divorce relationships
Friend is on year two and engaged. Another married to her post-divorce boyfriend (and a huge step up from her DH)
Anonymous
07/31/2019 23:18
Subject: Post divorce relationships
Certainly it varies a lot.
But if people like each other and are excited to have sex, then can imagine they would last a year and then one of them would want a commitment or break up. So "about a year" makes sense, but I doubt it's the norm in any way.
But if people like each other and are excited to have sex, then can imagine they would last a year and then one of them would want a commitment or break up. So "about a year" makes sense, but I doubt it's the norm in any way.
Anonymous
07/31/2019 23:11
Subject: Post divorce relationships
How long do your long term relationship last ??
It seems to be around a year based on experience and seeing people reappear on dating sites.