Anonymous
07/21/2019 13:55
Subject: Re:Must read books or blogs?
Esther Perel’s podcast.
Anonymous
07/21/2019 12:10
Subject: Must read books or blogs?
Sue Johnson psychologist
Anonymous
07/21/2019 11:59
Subject: Must read books or blogs?
Men are from Mars women are from venus
Anonymous
07/21/2019 11:29
Subject: Must read books or blogs?
Anonymous wrote:The Holy Bible
A lot of bad advice there.
Anonymous
07/21/2019 11:09
Subject: Must read books or blogs?
The Holy Bible
Anonymous
07/21/2019 11:06
Subject: Must read books or blogs?
5 Love Languages might help & give something to discuss w therapist
Anonymous
07/21/2019 11:00
Subject: Re:Must read books or blogs?
OP here. Was interested in books on relationships in general not just infidelity books. I'm personally not dealing with infidelity but a spouse that's been emotionally checked out. Just looking for ways to get our mojo back. We are in counseling but wanted to also read up on the topic. That's just how I'm wired.
Anonymous
07/21/2019 09:31
Subject: Must read books or blogs?
I'm so sorry. If your ex isnt willing to work on things, there is NOTHING you can do. Have some dignity. Begging, appearing needy, nagging, crying, leaving him with articles, all of that will just drive him away.
The most you can do is Be Better than what he was looking for outside the marriage. Google Joe Beam and read some of his stuff on how to save your marriage. It's truly the best advice if you are trying to save your marriage and your spouse is still in the thick of the affair fog.
The most you can do is Be Better than what he was looking for outside the marriage. Google Joe Beam and read some of his stuff on how to save your marriage. It's truly the best advice if you are trying to save your marriage and your spouse is still in the thick of the affair fog.
Anonymous
07/21/2019 09:06
Subject: Re:Must read books or blogs?
The book "Not "Just Friends": Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity After Infidelity," by Shirley Glass, is often recommended.
Anonymous
07/21/2019 09:01
Subject: Re:Must read books or blogs?
Healing Broken Trust In Your Marriage After Infidelity podcast by Brad & Morgan Robinson has some interesting talks, too.
Anonymous
07/21/2019 08:50
Subject: Re:Must read books or blogs?
Anonymous wrote:Since you mentioned the 180, I assume you mean for cheating? Chump Lady (but she does not advocate for trying to rebuild the marriage), Surviving Infidelity, Affair Recovery videos on YouTube.
+1 if you are trying to rebuild the relationship, the 180 will destroy it. Another +1 for Gottman books
Anonymous
07/21/2019 08:42
Subject: Re:Must read books or blogs?
Since you mentioned the 180, I assume you mean for cheating? Chump Lady (but she does not advocate for trying to rebuild the marriage), Surviving Infidelity, Affair Recovery videos on YouTube.
Anonymous
07/21/2019 08:37
Subject: Must read books or blogs?
Anything by Dr John Gottman is good
Anonymous
07/21/2019 07:44
Subject: Must read books or blogs?
Psychology Today online magazine
Anonymous
07/21/2019 06:41
Subject: Must read books or blogs?
Any recommendations on must read, relationship changing books/blogs?
The 180 has recently been discussed, which seems to have helped some dcumers but I personally have found it difficult to simultaneously try to reconnect with my DH while also acting like I don't care.
Any others?
The 180 has recently been discussed, which seems to have helped some dcumers but I personally have found it difficult to simultaneously try to reconnect with my DH while also acting like I don't care.
Any others?