This is always the dilemma of Pandora’s box. If you snoop, you have to be ready to accept that you’re going to find what you were looking for.

Meh, I've been curious about a couple of random guys since I've been married (exes, past crushes, my kid's gymnastics teacher). I have no intentions to cheat whatsoever, I'm just nosy. I agree with a PP though, that you were looking in the first place which means that something deeper is likely going on.

Lol I love how you say you were on the phone for something. So how does that justify snoooping on FB? DH and I let each other use our phones...I never Snoop.

Sorry, that sucks and is not cool, but it could be worse. I wouldn't do anything.

Anonymous wrote:You didn’t randomly check his FB. There’s a reason ... what is it?

Not just his FB, but his recent searches on FB and his messages. You're freaking out because you already thought he was cheating on you, OP. What you've uncovered doesn't look like much to me, but if you give the backstory to explain why you hacked his social media in the first place it's probably a worse picture.

Do you happen to know what people did with the original namesake college facebooks?

Anonymous wrote:I was on my husband’s phone the other day for something else...

Sure you were.

You didn’t randomly check his FB. There’s a reason ... what is it?

tl;dr - your husband thinks some woman who works in his building is hot, and discussed it with his friend.

What do you do? Whatever you had planned on doing today. This does not need to be separately addressed.

It's DCUM tradition that you panic and get a lawyer.

Stop snooping on your DH’s FB.

Stop snooping on your husband. That's what you do.

Nothing.

Friend request her.

I was on my husband’s phone the other day for something else and randomly checked his fb and saw that in the recent searches he had been searching this hot local girl who appears to work in his building.

I was stunned. I then checked his messages and saw that just earlier this week he was telling his coworker he saw the “hot girl” while he was working out in the gym. They’re both talking about how attractive she is.

Erm... what do I do?