Nothing to transfer today as both arrested. I’d strongly suggest to anyone that has trouble getting blasts to get their dh checked ASAP. My clinic hasn’t done a thing except sperm motility and fragmentation which showed up fine. We are past my comfort zone in carrying a pregnancy so we probably don’t have time now to investigate further.

OP, I'm so sorry to hear that! Crossing my fingers that tomorrow's transfer is able to go ahead and is successful!

Anonymous wrote:I am so sorry OP. This is devastating. Sending you hugs.

Thanks. I’m hoping I’ll have something to transfer tomorrow.

I am so sorry OP. This is devastating. Sending you hugs.

Thanks everyone. Unfortunately, I got a call driving to the transfer today that out of the 5 that fertilized 3 degenerated and 2 are morulas. I had the option of transferring both of those today or waiting to see if one makes it to blast tomorrow. 3 of my own cycles with only 2 not great blasts and 3 donor cycles with 3 different donors and maybe only 2 blasts. We are done after this and I wonder how hard it will be to get the money back from our shared risk. I’m sure they weren’t expecting donor eggs not to work too.

good luck!! you’ve got this!

Fingers crossed this is your donor’s best cycle ever—good luck, hun!

Good luck!!!

Sending good vibes!!!!

Fingers crossed and good luck to you!! <3

Good luck!!!!! Sending you good vibes.

OP best of luck! That is such a hard and scary situation. I hope everything works out this time for you!

Good luck, OP. I will be thinking about you and wishing you the best.

Tomorrow I’m hopefully doing an embryo transfer of a donor egg. This is my 6th and last try. I thought it was east with a donor but nope this is my 3rd donor and each time we only get either 0 or 1 blasts. I actually got pregnant this winter from my transfer and had a miscarriage. Anyway, I’m just venting because every time I have a transfer scheduled I get a call with one more day needed or nothing at all.