Anonymous wrote:I've worked in elder law and see a lot of people aging out of their homes, which remain vacant while they're living and in a facility or wherever ... and then by the time family inherit it, it's fallen into severe disrepair, and they can't afford or aren't inclined to fix it up, but hang onto it for sentimental reasons or because they won't accept a reasonable market price based on its condition.
My mom was next of kin to her elderly never married uncle. He died in a nursing home but lived in the same house (a once grand Victorian) for nearly his entire adult life, 30-90. My mom was to be the executor of his estate but she declined, citing too much work, time and effort (uncle was a hoarder and cat rescuer hobbyist) and so my uncle's house became city property. The house sat abandoned for nearly ten years. Initially, one neighbor offered to buy the house just to tear it down. The house became listed as a blighted property (took several years to get that designation) and was finally demolished. I'm still so angry at my mom for not handling this better. So this is just one way houses become abandoned.