Anonymous wrote:What do you mean “we” are trying to decide? This should be left entirely up to your daughter and you need to stay out of it.
My daughter doesn't know enough about it, and quite frankly really doesn't care enough about it to have much of an opinion. If I think it's a good idea she's fine with doing it. If I think it's a waste of time, she's not going to lose any sleep over it. And before anyone gets hysterical, she has plenty of hobbies and activities that she absolutely does care about and has her own opinions about. But this isn't one of them.