Anonymous wrote:There are exceptions where an agency must grant spousal work abroad if the spouse is posted on an overseas assignment for the government (I know State and Justice participate in some form). Not sure how it works though worth checking out.
I have never heard of this.
To the OP - try with your agency - do they allow telework in general? If so, you could make a case for it. DETO is a thing but my understanding is that it's for State's benefit, not your agency or you. They want their $ if you are going to use ICASS services like computer/network, etc.
Check out State's Family Liaison Office (FLO) - I believe they have regional reps. Also, look at the available EFM jobs. There is also something called the professional associates program. And check with USAID or other agencies at port. Be creative and don't rule anything out.