Anonymous wrote:How would you feel if the person you are dating openly disclosed they paid for sex (legally in Europe)? You were not together when it happened.

I’d lose respect for that person and break it off. I’d be concerned that he/she might have an undiagnosed STD or engage in risky sexual behavior later in the relationship. What kind of person would pay someone to have sex with them?

It's weird that he told you.

That would actually be the dealbreaker part for me because it just means that he's the type to get something off his chest even if it makes the other person feel uncomfortable. Sort of thoughtless because what did he expect your reaction to be, OP? And even if he regrets it (you didnt' really say if he told you that he did it but wish he hadn't?...or if he's just sort of braggy about it...? or if it was just one of those "I did this crazy thing in amsterdam one time" stories), he can't change it now, so what was the point?

Anonymous wrote:Deal breaker. It undermines human dignity.

As opposed to a totally dignified ONS?

I will never have a relationship with someone who paid for sex. Prostitution is the modern slavery, even when legal (take anlook to the red district in Amsterdam...)

Why pay when so many are giving it away for free?

My issue isn’t the sex per day. It is you have zero idea what that woman’s story is. Maybe she is empowered, maybe she is being forced or maybe it is someone in the middle and she have zero options.

I think I am more concerned that there was no thought on how to be a thoughtful consumer.

Anonymous wrote:Deal breaker. It undermines human dignity.

What do you mean? It's not empowering for the woman who chooses this as a profession? Praytell what kind of anti-feminist are you???

Anonymous wrote:How would you feel if the person you are dating openly disclosed they paid for sex (legally in Europe)? You were not together when it happened.

He is an idiot.

For disclosing.

Anonymous wrote:Deal breaker. It undermines human dignity.

Man, btw. I would say less than 10 percent of my male friends have gone down this road.

Deal breaker. It undermines human dignity.

Anonymous wrote:NOPE, move on

I'm a woman. I wouldn't trust a man that was willing to sleep with prostitutes anywhere legal or not.

OP here - can you identify your gender in your reply.

NOPE, move on

No big deal.

How would you feel if the person you are dating openly disclosed they paid for sex (legally in Europe)? You were not together when it happened.